"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Anyone have an idea as to why I can have much success getting dates on POF, but have relatively zero luck on OKC?

Is this more of a LTR crowd or am I missing something?

Maybe higher quality plates so I should expect lesser results?

I'd love to know a theory, because there has been nothing like POF in terms of return messages for me.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Poonani Maker

Poonani Maker

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It MAY be that many of them are FAKE in order to get you to purchase "other features." I get several likes but none of them hardly ever respond to my intro message (something simple) unless they are Uber Fat (don't even try to message) or Fugly.
 
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okputrid is crap dude. I went on there to take a look and its like the character selection screen for warcraft, orcs, orges and other unimaginably hideous creatures, so foul that they could appear in Walking Dead as an "ugly zombie" and they wouldn't even need makeup to accomplish that
 
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