"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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mister.ritenow

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Anyone have an idea as to why I can have much success getting dates on POF, but have relatively zero luck on OKC?

Is this more of a LTR crowd or am I missing something?

Maybe higher quality plates so I should expect lesser results?

I'd love to know a theory, because there has been nothing like POF in terms of return messages for me.
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Poonani Maker

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It MAY be that many of them are FAKE in order to get you to purchase "other features." I get several likes but none of them hardly ever respond to my intro message (something simple) unless they are Uber Fat (don't even try to message) or Fugly.
 

Cloudtopsun2100

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okputrid is crap dude. I went on there to take a look and its like the character selection screen for warcraft, orcs, orges and other unimaginably hideous creatures, so foul that they could appear in Walking Dead as an "ugly zombie" and they wouldn't even need makeup to accomplish that
 
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