"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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mister.ritenow

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Anyone have an idea as to why I can have much success getting dates on POF, but have relatively zero luck on OKC?

Is this more of a LTR crowd or am I missing something?

Maybe higher quality plates so I should expect lesser results?

I'd love to know a theory, because there has been nothing like POF in terms of return messages for me.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Poonani Maker

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It MAY be that many of them are FAKE in order to get you to purchase "other features." I get several likes but none of them hardly ever respond to my intro message (something simple) unless they are Uber Fat (don't even try to message) or Fugly.
 

Cloudtopsun2100

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okputrid is crap dude. I went on there to take a look and its like the character selection screen for warcraft, orcs, orges and other unimaginably hideous creatures, so foul that they could appear in Walking Dead as an "ugly zombie" and they wouldn't even need makeup to accomplish that
 
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