Okcupid girl

[Bassmasterzac]

Alright laugh it up I used okcupid haha, I messaged this awesome girl I had a high match with. We hit if off really good, flirting, escalation. I quickly asked her out. She was busy so we had to schedule a week im advance.
I asked her for her number and that was the last message we exchanged after posting her digits. I sent her a text tonight (dates tom) and she never replied to it. This was the first time i texted her.

The text was: Looking forward to
meeting a girl that THINKS she can outfish me see you at 3 tomorrow by the (location). Bring a bathing suit.

I know the message is horrible. Anywho, does that mean she lost interest or am
i overthinking it? Should i even show up?

 

[Vice]

Don't bother showing up. I've noticed many girls use online dating as a means to validate themselves and snicker to their girlfriends regarding the guys they manipulate into meeting up, and then blow off. I've seen it first hand. I've been in the room as they cruise Facebook and OKC/POF for "cute guys" and the comments they make.

If you live in a large city you would be much better off honing your game in real life.

 

[VladPatton]

If you don't get a reply up to 2-3 hrs before the original time for the date, don't bother. Give it some time, she could of dropped her phone in the shıtter for all you know. However, the closer the set time approaches and the more she remains radio silent, the more concrete her flake becomes. Just an attention whóre off the net.

 

[Bassmasterzac]

Very insightful advice, guys! Forget her then, I'll just go fish by myself
tomorrow and meet some people on the beach. I just moved, so I thought itd be a good way to network.

She didn't seem like a *****y or shallow type, though. She was a nice girl, and my okcupid was originally ga, so when i set up a meet she was joking at first until i said a location near her, then got excited. I thought maybe i did something wrong, or maybe she did drop her phone lolz

Thanks guys

 

[Vice]

Don't take it personally dude, this is a very normal occurrence online. It is possible to get a date, but honestly it's not worth the effort.

 

[Bassmasterzac]

Eh, i wont. Its her loss, i guess i didnt do anything wrong?

 

[El Payaso]

Most girls on dating sites are just there for validation.