"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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OKCupid and texting

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tdotseoul

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So I have this message that I send to every girl and it has gotten a lot of good responses and got numbers.

But, I fail from the text game.

What is the purpose of texting after they have given me their number and how can I date close?
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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El Payaso

El Payaso

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I'll tell you what I usually do. I don't number close, I date close. I ask them out on the date right on the website and if they agree, I ask for their number so we can keep in contact better than the website.

I find date closing to be more effective than number closing. Asking for a number only works better during cold approaches when you might not see the girl again or you might not see her as often so you need it to keep in contact or as a medium to ask her out.

OLD (Online Dating), you're already messaging back and forth. No need to push it to texting back and forth before asking her out.
 
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ImWithTheDJ

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If she doesn't response to your texts that mean she isn't interested. Next her.
 
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