"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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OKCupid and texting

tdotseoul

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So I have this message that I send to every girl and it has gotten a lot of good responses and got numbers.

But, I fail from the text game.

What is the purpose of texting after they have given me their number and how can I date close?
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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El Payaso

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I'll tell you what I usually do. I don't number close, I date close. I ask them out on the date right on the website and if they agree, I ask for their number so we can keep in contact better than the website.

I find date closing to be more effective than number closing. Asking for a number only works better during cold approaches when you might not see the girl again or you might not see her as often so you need it to keep in contact or as a medium to ask her out.

OLD (Online Dating), you're already messaging back and forth. No need to push it to texting back and forth before asking her out.
 

ImWithTheDJ

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If she doesn't response to your texts that mean she isn't interested. Next her.
 
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