Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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OKC rejection left me on Cloud 9, and ecstatic, lol

marmel75

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skinnyguy said:
Can I get some advice from you….?

I'm trying to lose belly fat and build muscle in chest/shoulders. What kind of routine should I do. Right now I do 3 days a week, cardio for 10 minutes then weights for 50 minutes. If I do intense cardio like sprinting will that hurt the results I get from weight training?
Well, you can't just lose belly fat, you will lose fat from all over your body.

Cardio is vastly overrated for fat loss, you can lift weights in a manner that will double as cardio and keep your heart rate elevated while torching fat.

It depends how committed you are. The single best workout program I have ever used was an 8x8 program by Vince Gironda. It was a twice a day program using short, intense workouts of no more than 20-25 minutes each with very little rest in between sets(15 seconds). You will torch fat on this program but it requires a high level of dedication...3 days on, 1 day off. If you want to try it I will pm you the workout routine.

If that is too much or time doesnt allow it, I would recommend doing something like time/volume training.
Basically you take your large body parts---quads, back,chest and do a 15 min block, and smaller body parts---hams, bi's, tri's, calves and shoulders and do 7.5 min blocks. In these timed blocks you start with a weight you can lift for 10 reps normally, and you will do 3 reps, then rest 10 seconds, 3 reps, rest 10 seconds, until the 15 minutes or 7.5 minutes are up. If you can't get 3 reps after a while, increase rest time to 15 seconds, then 20 seconds, etc until you can get 3 reps. If you are able to go more than half the time with getting 3 reps every ten seconds, then increase the weight next time. If not, use the same weight until you can. Then immediately go to the next block.

Blocks are as follows:

Day 1/Day 4: Chest, Back, Bi's, Tri's
Day 2/Day 5: Quads, Hams, Calves, Shoulders

Day 1/4 will take 45 mins, day 2/5 will take 37.5 minutes...your goal is to work as hard as possible in the amount of time you have...no water breaks, no talking to others, no resting...you should be very tired by the end of these at first but within a few weeks you will be able to do more and more weight as you adapt...

Run this program for 6 weeks along with a good carb cycling diet and you will see a significant difference in body fat...
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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BeDJ

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Be marmel75
Date with HB8 from OKC
Drinks and tongue massages
Drinks and ice cream at her place
Date is sloppy, drips ice cream on chest
"Marmel, can you help me clean?"
I say, "not today, I'm carb cycling"
Walk home while mirin' myself on car windows.
Appear on suspect list
Alpha as fvck
 

marmel75

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BeDJ said:
Be marmel75
Date with HB8 from OKC
Drinks and tongue massages
Drinks and ice cream at her place
Date is sloppy, drips ice cream on chest
"Marmel, can you help me clean?"
I say, "not today, I'm carb cycling"
Walk home while mirin' myself on car windows.
Appear on suspect list
Alpha as fvck
LMAO!!!!!

I'd be like b!tch, you trying to f*ck up my cycle???
Clean that whipped cream you sprayed on yourself too...
I gotta go, have an early gym day tomorrow, need my 8 hours of sleep, lol
 

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Purefilth said:
marmel75 -
you've been away for a while, what happened? Last we heard from you, your wife busted you for your online antics... like a year ago wasn't it?

What's the rest of the story?
This. I remember when the shyt hit the fan too with you Marmel. WTF happened?
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Greasy Pig said:
This. I remember when the shyt hit the fan too with you Marmel. WTF happened?
I want to know the whole story now! What happened online that led to these questions about "what happened?"
 
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