"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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OKC rejection left me on Cloud 9, and ecstatic, lol

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Messaged this girl on OKC, and she said verbatim:

"I am SO not into the bodybuilder look. I mean, OK, great you workout, but do you really have to look like such a meathead? Sorry, not interested."

That pretty much left me on cloud 9 and high fiving myself...I literally wanted to give this chick a giant hug through the OKC site...hahaha...ah well, win some, lose some no matter what you look like I guess...
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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marmel75 said:
Messaged this girl on OKC, and she said verbatim:

"I am SO not into the bodybuilder look. I mean, OK, great you workout, but do you really have to look like such a meathead? Sorry, not interested."

That pretty much left me on cloud 9 and high fiving myself...I literally wanted to give this chick a giant hug through the OKC site...hahaha...ah well, win some, lose some no matter what you look like I guess...
ahahah epic man! That would put a huge smile on my face to. :up:
 

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n52 said:
ROOOOIDS:cuss:
Nope...SARMs ;-)

And a lot of hard work...
 
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You must be overly built to get that kind of messages.

But then again some women are crazy.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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SamTheHobit said:
You must be overly built to get that kind of messages.

But then again some women are crazy.
So far I have been told I look like:

Wolverine, Superman, one of the Avengers, "geez you are ripped", and now a bodybuilder, lol
 

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Here's betting $50 that the next guy she dates is EXACTLY the "bodybuilder type". Mark my words. I've seen it all when it comes to women and what they do or don't want. I've seen girls with the most banging body you could imagine that workout 4-5 times a week and claim to want someone who's in shape and is all about working out like they are, only to date some fat@$$ looking guy who's never ridden past a gym, much less been in one.
 

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lol @ SARMs, you might as well just be injecting test, at least you know what you're putting into your body
 

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thatfeel said:
lol @ SARMs, you might as well just be injecting test, at least you know what you're putting into your body
The thought of giving blood several times a year to prevent high hematocrit levels is too much to bear...

SARMs are highly effective at a risk/reward level I can deal with...
 

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marmel75 -
you've been away for a while, what happened? Last we heard from you, your wife busted you for your online antics... like a year ago wasn't it?

What's the rest of the story?
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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marmel75 said:
"I am SO not into the bodybuilder look. I mean, OK, great you workout, but do you really have to look like such a meathead? Sorry, not interested."
Did you respond? I used to love b1tchy messages like this. Unless they block you afterwards.

My response: Meat....head? Dont understand. My head does not have meat on it. You r confusing woman.
 

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ask her if she likes fat guys with money haha
 

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marmel75 said:
Messaged this girl on OKC, and she said verbatim:

"I am SO not into the bodybuilder look. I mean, OK, great you workout, but do you really have to look like such a meathead? Sorry, not interested."

That pretty much left me on cloud 9 and high fiving myself...I literally wanted to give this chick a giant hug through the OKC site...hahaha...ah well, win some, lose some no matter what you look like I guess...

Chick was full of it.

She most likely got burned by a few jacked or cut up dudes and is now trying a thinly veiled attempt to "push them all away" and her reply was a test to see if you could charm her with some funny response right back at her and surprise her or just run off like some dude who had no confidence but only "muscles".

I'd be willing to bet she's dated/ gotten pounded out by jacked/gym dudes before.

Dude like I told you. Next time. (Since you mentioned to me you replied with something else.)

I would've replied:

Hey, us meatheads are people too! Do you always make it a point to tell dudes who take care of themselves and write you that you are sooo not into them? Or in my case did you decide to make a special exception? You never know..I could've one day been your favorite meathead! lol =)


Simple and quick reply. She'd either reject and you keep it moving or I suspect she'd know you aren't buying her nonsense and gotten a bit surprised the "meathead" isn't so bad..
 

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marmel75 said:
Messaged this girl on OKC, and she said verbatim:

"I am SO not into the bodybuilder look. I mean, OK, great you workout, but do you really have to look like such a meathead? Sorry, not interested."

That pretty much left me on cloud 9 and high fiving myself...I literally wanted to give this chick a giant hug through the OKC site...hahaha...ah well, win some, lose some no matter what you look like I guess...

So that's the rejection you got....that you look like a meathead. Ok,lol.

Well I think I have one that can top that.....


This just happened the day before yesterday (On Wednesday). Me and this chick on OKC had been messaging back and forth,she gave me her number,traded a few text,etc,etc.


We had done that for like 2 or 3 days. Anyway,I get home from work Wednesday night,then when I got on Cupid,I noticed I had a message from her. She told me that she was going through looking at some of my answers to questions they asked and she said my answers raised some red flags for her.


Now.....check THIS out....

The "red flags" that I supposedly raised for her was that I'm AGAINST drugs. Read that again....I'm AGAINST drugs....I'm anti-drug. I don't do meth,crack,"E",smoke weed,or anything.


Well this chick,she has seizures. I know that,she told me that. In her rejection message to me,she told me her doctor recommended that she smoke pot,said that it'll help her with her seizures. Well he's the doctor,if he says it'll help,then I say go ahead with it. But she went on about how she doesn't think it's that bad,and blah,blah,blah.

Don't know if she was trying to convince me or what,but I know some doctors recommend pot for certain medical conditions,I understood that.

I ain't no doctor. So if the doc prescribes it,I don't have a problem that,they're the one who went to medical school,not me.



So there you go. I told her it's cool,wished her luck on the site,but getting rejected cause I'm AGAINST drugs??? I said to myself,"Damn...and just when I thought I'd seen it all"...:crackup:


It's cool though...got a date set up with another chick from there tonight anyway.
 
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Look in mirror, see HB9 checking me out
Say "What an awesome body"
She blushes, giggles and says thanks
Say "No I meant me"
Sprint to pull up bar
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High Five Myself
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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BeDJ said:
Be marmel75
Preparing to deadlift 3 plates
Look in mirror, see HB9 checking me out
Say "What an awesome body"
She blushes, giggles and says thanks
Say "No I meant me"
Sprint to pull up bar
25 reps
Muscle Confusion
High Five Myself
LMAO, now see this is funny. And I hope Marmel can laugh too. The forum is supposed to bind us together, not have us arguing and fighting all the time.
I want to worry about getting laid, not whether humble ninja is going to stab me in the exercise yard with a tooth brush.

Humble, you know that was a joke....right?
 

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BeDJ said:
Be marmel75
Preparing to deadlift 3 plates
Look in mirror, see HB9 checking me out
Say "What an awesome body"
She blushes, giggles and says thanks
Say "No I meant me"
Sprint to pull up bar
25 reps
Muscle Confusion
High Five Myself
Lol, if I was deadlifting 3 plates, that would mean I'm still warming up, hahaha :rock:
 

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BeDJ said:
Be marmel75
Preparing to deadlift 3 plates
Look in mirror, see HB9 checking me out
Say "What an awesome body"
She blushes, giggles and says thanks
Say "No I meant me"
Sprint to pull up bar
25 reps
Muscle Confusion
High Five Myself
Sprint?:cuss: sounds like cardio - don't swear at me!

And everyone knows that real muscle confusion comes from curling in the squat rack:cheer:
 

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Purefilth said:
Sprint?:cuss: sounds like cardio - don't swear at me!

And everyone knows that real muscle confusion comes from curling in the squat rack:cheer:
LMAO....

I prefer doing pull-ups in the squat rack :crackup:
 

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marmel75 said:
Messaged this girl on OKC, and she said verbatim:

"I am SO not into the bodybuilder look. I mean, OK, great you workout, but do you really have to look like such a meathead? Sorry, not interested."

That pretty much left me on cloud 9 and high fiving myself...I literally wanted to give this chick a giant hug through the OKC site...hahaha...ah well, win some, lose some no matter what you look like I guess...
Can I get some advice from you….?

I'm trying to lose belly fat and build muscle in chest/shoulders. What kind of routine should I do. Right now I do 3 days a week, cardio for 10 minutes then weights for 50 minutes. If I do intense cardio like sprinting will that hurt the results I get from weight training?
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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