"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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OKC Drama

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Justt recently started talking to a girl off okc and we made plans for Wednesday.

I get a text that says "just found out you've been talking to one of my friends who's also on the site. I don't like what you're about and will not be seeing you Wednesday. Do not contact me again"

So funny because it's a dating site and of course a guy's bound to message/talk to someone who knows someone else.

Wish I knew who her friend was, she didn't sound too happy about it lol
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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its crazy, they are crazy, you start chatting to someone and they think thats it, you should be exclusively talking to her, meanwhile they are on and offline talking to who and whoever, thats ok.
they also feel free to tell you, "you have been onlline a lot?" .."oh yeah? how do you know? maybe you have been online just as much to notice this?"

they are nuts!
 

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So true. Had that happen the other day, exchanged numbers quick because I said I was logging off. Well the iPhone app keeps you logged in for a period and she messages 10 minutes later "thought you were logging off??" and I never heard from her again haha.

I'm curious why this recent girl became so angry. Wonder what her friend said about me. Though I can't even recollect who it'd even be from the city she's in.
 

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Yeah, you have to wonder if she was chatting anybody else up on the site.

I'm surprised this sort of thing doesn't happen more often, honestly. They always say on this site that the more women you have, the more attractive you are, and the more fiercely they will cling to you. But I remember juggling two women at once when I was younger and losing them both when they found out about each other.
 

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tryst type said:
I'm curious why this recent girl became so angry. Wonder what her friend said about me. Though I can't even recollect who it'd even be from the city she's in.
dont even go there, not worth beating yourself up over, it will be something trivial, BS, pure confabulation, either way between her and her friend, you have been blown out.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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betheman said:
dont even go there, not worth beating yourself up over, it will be something trivial, BS, pure confabulation, either way between her and her friend, you have been blown out.
True. I'm willing to bet I wasn't into whoever her friend was and she probably bad mouthed me in some way to make herself feel better. Of course I'm thinking positively here.
 

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Fvck them, Tryst. Their entitlement mentality (they spoke with you, now they OWN you) could not possibly be worth the effort! Consider them screened out and saving you the trouble!
 

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Always on the lookout for a followup setup after I start talking to someone seriously on there. I think I encounterd it once. And I always get the why were you online type **** tests, only not so direct. I completely ignore it until they come out and ask me exactly what they wanna know. None of this ask a question to ask a question crap. I'll start talking about the weather if I fancy.
 

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Consider your self fortunate! Girls that this thread is about aren't worth the time.
 
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