"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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OKC Drama

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Justt recently started talking to a girl off okc and we made plans for Wednesday.

I get a text that says "just found out you've been talking to one of my friends who's also on the site. I don't like what you're about and will not be seeing you Wednesday. Do not contact me again"

So funny because it's a dating site and of course a guy's bound to message/talk to someone who knows someone else.

Wish I knew who her friend was, she didn't sound too happy about it lol
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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its crazy, they are crazy, you start chatting to someone and they think thats it, you should be exclusively talking to her, meanwhile they are on and offline talking to who and whoever, thats ok.
they also feel free to tell you, "you have been onlline a lot?" .."oh yeah? how do you know? maybe you have been online just as much to notice this?"

they are nuts!
 

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So true. Had that happen the other day, exchanged numbers quick because I said I was logging off. Well the iPhone app keeps you logged in for a period and she messages 10 minutes later "thought you were logging off??" and I never heard from her again haha.

I'm curious why this recent girl became so angry. Wonder what her friend said about me. Though I can't even recollect who it'd even be from the city she's in.
 

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Yeah, you have to wonder if she was chatting anybody else up on the site.

I'm surprised this sort of thing doesn't happen more often, honestly. They always say on this site that the more women you have, the more attractive you are, and the more fiercely they will cling to you. But I remember juggling two women at once when I was younger and losing them both when they found out about each other.
 

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tryst type said:
I'm curious why this recent girl became so angry. Wonder what her friend said about me. Though I can't even recollect who it'd even be from the city she's in.
dont even go there, not worth beating yourself up over, it will be something trivial, BS, pure confabulation, either way between her and her friend, you have been blown out.
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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betheman said:
dont even go there, not worth beating yourself up over, it will be something trivial, BS, pure confabulation, either way between her and her friend, you have been blown out.
True. I'm willing to bet I wasn't into whoever her friend was and she probably bad mouthed me in some way to make herself feel better. Of course I'm thinking positively here.
 

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Fvck them, Tryst. Their entitlement mentality (they spoke with you, now they OWN you) could not possibly be worth the effort! Consider them screened out and saving you the trouble!
 

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Always on the lookout for a followup setup after I start talking to someone seriously on there. I think I encounterd it once. And I always get the why were you online type **** tests, only not so direct. I completely ignore it until they come out and ask me exactly what they wanna know. None of this ask a question to ask a question crap. I'll start talking about the weather if I fancy.
 

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Consider your self fortunate! Girls that this thread is about aren't worth the time.
 
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