"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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OKC Drama

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Justt recently started talking to a girl off okc and we made plans for Wednesday.

I get a text that says "just found out you've been talking to one of my friends who's also on the site. I don't like what you're about and will not be seeing you Wednesday. Do not contact me again"

So funny because it's a dating site and of course a guy's bound to message/talk to someone who knows someone else.

Wish I knew who her friend was, she didn't sound too happy about it lol
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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its crazy, they are crazy, you start chatting to someone and they think thats it, you should be exclusively talking to her, meanwhile they are on and offline talking to who and whoever, thats ok.
they also feel free to tell you, "you have been onlline a lot?" .."oh yeah? how do you know? maybe you have been online just as much to notice this?"

they are nuts!
 

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So true. Had that happen the other day, exchanged numbers quick because I said I was logging off. Well the iPhone app keeps you logged in for a period and she messages 10 minutes later "thought you were logging off??" and I never heard from her again haha.

I'm curious why this recent girl became so angry. Wonder what her friend said about me. Though I can't even recollect who it'd even be from the city she's in.
 

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Yeah, you have to wonder if she was chatting anybody else up on the site.

I'm surprised this sort of thing doesn't happen more often, honestly. They always say on this site that the more women you have, the more attractive you are, and the more fiercely they will cling to you. But I remember juggling two women at once when I was younger and losing them both when they found out about each other.
 

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tryst type said:
I'm curious why this recent girl became so angry. Wonder what her friend said about me. Though I can't even recollect who it'd even be from the city she's in.
dont even go there, not worth beating yourself up over, it will be something trivial, BS, pure confabulation, either way between her and her friend, you have been blown out.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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betheman said:
dont even go there, not worth beating yourself up over, it will be something trivial, BS, pure confabulation, either way between her and her friend, you have been blown out.
True. I'm willing to bet I wasn't into whoever her friend was and she probably bad mouthed me in some way to make herself feel better. Of course I'm thinking positively here.
 

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Fvck them, Tryst. Their entitlement mentality (they spoke with you, now they OWN you) could not possibly be worth the effort! Consider them screened out and saving you the trouble!
 

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Always on the lookout for a followup setup after I start talking to someone seriously on there. I think I encounterd it once. And I always get the why were you online type **** tests, only not so direct. I completely ignore it until they come out and ask me exactly what they wanna know. None of this ask a question to ask a question crap. I'll start talking about the weather if I fancy.
 

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Consider your self fortunate! Girls that this thread is about aren't worth the time.
 
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