"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Okay who has the more moral and righteous ground in this situation?

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As you know in my previous post, I have two friends who are were close in the past but sworn enemies now. John and Freddy. John is a destructive person, he does drugs, ask people for money and always in trouble with the law. Freddy on otherhand is also a drug user at times, he does recreational coke when he can but he's more sober, he also stole John's wife and family away from him and constantly gossip about him.

He is now in a relationship with John's wife and have raised a good portion of years- John's daughter Ryleigh. I sometimes believe he is also gossiping about numerous people which includes myself. John have made some attempts to go to Freddy's house with both his wife Roxanna and their daughter Ryleigh inside, John was intoxicated on drugs and was angry which I can understand why. John got in trouble with the law because of this .Roxanna, John's wife and Ryleigh live separately from Freddy. It is Freddy who has to make the committment and plans to go to their place. John is aware of this and that is why he is angry and mad at Freddy, he wants him to leave Roxanna alone.

With this in mind, I had a conversation with Freddy today and told me that John have cheated on Roxanna multiple times in their relationship and that Freddy has helped paid financially with the bills with Roxanne and Ryleigh's household acting as a substitute father. However from what John has told me, Roxanna has cheated on him multiple times as well and from what I've known Freddy has cheated on her multiple times during their relationship with late night booty calls to some blonde hipster name Dorothy. I don't know whose righteous anymore but these people seem to be a buncha dirt bags, but from a basic moral principle I would go with John because Freddy should have never butted in and stole Roxanne away from him in the first place. From a basic spiritual and moral principle you just don't steal another Man's wife like that or you will reap bad consequences. John now has a job in Bank of America working seventeen dollars an hour and enjoys biking as a hobby and as stress relief. Who do you think has more moral ground in this situation? John or Freddy and why?

You could say ' hey man, you should be minding your own fvcken business but it's these types of situations and scenarios which fascinates me and eat at me the most because this is a total fvcken scenario based off a Classic English literary fiction where one man seems to be stable and appears to have good basic qualities but is a cold, calculating, sinister son of a gun who takes advantage of a Good man's passion and desires.

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"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Asked and answered previously, hoss:

Freddy's (mal)treatment of Tina
torpedoes any claim to moral high ground he may have enjoyed
 

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Seriously give me a serious practical answer as to why
In reading your post, I saw no mention of John accessing a teen girl's bedroom, then slicing her open, whilst she was clad in nothing but a button-up and white cotton panties. That puts him light years ahead of Freddie morally
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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