"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Okay who has the more moral and righteous ground in this situation?

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As you know in my previous post, I have two friends who are were close in the past but sworn enemies now. John and Freddy. John is a destructive person, he does drugs, ask people for money and always in trouble with the law. Freddy on otherhand is also a drug user at times, he does recreational coke when he can but he's more sober, he also stole John's wife and family away from him and constantly gossip about him.

He is now in a relationship with John's wife and have raised a good portion of years- John's daughter Ryleigh. I sometimes believe he is also gossiping about numerous people which includes myself. John have made some attempts to go to Freddy's house with both his wife Roxanna and their daughter Ryleigh inside, John was intoxicated on drugs and was angry which I can understand why. John got in trouble with the law because of this .Roxanna, John's wife and Ryleigh live separately from Freddy. It is Freddy who has to make the committment and plans to go to their place. John is aware of this and that is why he is angry and mad at Freddy, he wants him to leave Roxanna alone.

With this in mind, I had a conversation with Freddy today and told me that John have cheated on Roxanna multiple times in their relationship and that Freddy has helped paid financially with the bills with Roxanne and Ryleigh's household acting as a substitute father. However from what John has told me, Roxanna has cheated on him multiple times as well and from what I've known Freddy has cheated on her multiple times during their relationship with late night booty calls to some blonde hipster name Dorothy. I don't know whose righteous anymore but these people seem to be a buncha dirt bags, but from a basic moral principle I would go with John because Freddy should have never butted in and stole Roxanne away from him in the first place. From a basic spiritual and moral principle you just don't steal another Man's wife like that or you will reap bad consequences. John now has a job in Bank of America working seventeen dollars an hour and enjoys biking as a hobby and as stress relief. Who do you think has more moral ground in this situation? John or Freddy and why?

You could say ' hey man, you should be minding your own fvcken business but it's these types of situations and scenarios which fascinates me and eat at me the most because this is a total fvcken scenario based off a Classic English literary fiction where one man seems to be stable and appears to have good basic qualities but is a cold, calculating, sinister son of a gun who takes advantage of a Good man's passion and desires.

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"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Asked and answered previously, hoss:

Freddy's (mal)treatment of Tina
torpedoes any claim to moral high ground he may have enjoyed
 

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Seriously give me a serious practical answer as to why
In reading your post, I saw no mention of John accessing a teen girl's bedroom, then slicing her open, whilst she was clad in nothing but a button-up and white cotton panties. That puts him light years ahead of Freddie morally
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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