"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Okay so that girl i was talking about....

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Okay, so there's this girl at lunch i talk to sometimes. She's a freshman, and we mess with eachother. We'll call her girl X. X and my sister (who is a freshman also) don't really like eachother, and the X actually has talked to my sister about me before. Last night, that X's friend adds me on facebook, and sends me a message with X's phone number in it.
What exactly does this mean. I've never talked to X's friend in my entire life, and she goes ahead and adds me on facebook, and gives me X's number.
How would you interpret this???????
 
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let girls play their girly games. You are a man. You are not supposed to analyze sh1t like this. Just behave like an alpha male, game your target, befriend everyone else that comes your way.

PS: on a side note, X might like you, and told her friend to give you her number, maybe she thinks giving you her number directly would be too much of an IOI. Her friend should have at least said hi or something.. X and her friends seem pretty lame and weird to be honest. Just don't get emotionally involved.
 

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What was the message that the X's friend included with the phone number? Or you just saw the X's phone number on the X's friend facebook page. What is the deal?
 

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Okay, she sent me a message titled "X's #" and then inside was the number. Nothing else. i don't know why. It's kind of weird. X's friend just sent it to me in a message. That's it
how would you handle this daygameguy
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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I would call her, and neg her on being shy and not having the balls to give out her # herself.

You have complete right to be ****y/having higher status, and interpret/mis-interpret everything she does/says as her hitting on you.

I would take the lead if she wants me to, take her out, but keep qualifying her, and keep accusing her (playfully) of liking me:

- I'm very high maintanence, you've got to wine and dine me.
- When did you first realize you were attracted to me?


If she playfully denies:
"Yeah right, you're totally going to write about me in your diary tonight. It's going to be all like..." (said in a girly voice) "DEAR DIARY, I MET THIS TOTALLY CUTE GUY NAMED <your name> TODAY, HE'S REALLY COOL AND SMART AND FUNNY, AND I HOPE HE LIKES ME BECAUSE I TOTALLY LIKE HIM! BUT I CAN'T TELL ANYONE BECAUSE BOYS HAVE COOTIES! HEART SMILEY FACE <her name>!"
 

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Lol, that's some good stuff man.
I just don't want any trickery going on or something. Remember, we're dealing w/ highschool chicks here.
 

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Yeah well her friend told me it wasn't a mistake, and to call or text her.... so yeah
 
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