"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Okay so that girl i was talking about....

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Okay, so there's this girl at lunch i talk to sometimes. She's a freshman, and we mess with eachother. We'll call her girl X. X and my sister (who is a freshman also) don't really like eachother, and the X actually has talked to my sister about me before. Last night, that X's friend adds me on facebook, and sends me a message with X's phone number in it.
What exactly does this mean. I've never talked to X's friend in my entire life, and she goes ahead and adds me on facebook, and gives me X's number.
How would you interpret this???????
 
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"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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let girls play their girly games. You are a man. You are not supposed to analyze sh1t like this. Just behave like an alpha male, game your target, befriend everyone else that comes your way.

PS: on a side note, X might like you, and told her friend to give you her number, maybe she thinks giving you her number directly would be too much of an IOI. Her friend should have at least said hi or something.. X and her friends seem pretty lame and weird to be honest. Just don't get emotionally involved.
 

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What was the message that the X's friend included with the phone number? Or you just saw the X's phone number on the X's friend facebook page. What is the deal?
 

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Okay, she sent me a message titled "X's #" and then inside was the number. Nothing else. i don't know why. It's kind of weird. X's friend just sent it to me in a message. That's it
how would you handle this daygameguy
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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I would call her, and neg her on being shy and not having the balls to give out her # herself.

You have complete right to be ****y/having higher status, and interpret/mis-interpret everything she does/says as her hitting on you.

I would take the lead if she wants me to, take her out, but keep qualifying her, and keep accusing her (playfully) of liking me:

- I'm very high maintanence, you've got to wine and dine me.
- When did you first realize you were attracted to me?


If she playfully denies:
"Yeah right, you're totally going to write about me in your diary tonight. It's going to be all like..." (said in a girly voice) "DEAR DIARY, I MET THIS TOTALLY CUTE GUY NAMED <your name> TODAY, HE'S REALLY COOL AND SMART AND FUNNY, AND I HOPE HE LIKES ME BECAUSE I TOTALLY LIKE HIM! BUT I CAN'T TELL ANYONE BECAUSE BOYS HAVE COOTIES! HEART SMILEY FACE <her name>!"
 

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Lol, that's some good stuff man.
I just don't want any trickery going on or something. Remember, we're dealing w/ highschool chicks here.
 

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Yeah well her friend told me it wasn't a mistake, and to call or text her.... so yeah
 
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