"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Okay guys, dumb question but help me out anyway

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So I've recently developed a case of not being able to pull the trigger. Generally, by the second time I go out with a girl, I'll have a decent chance at a K-close. But I've begun second guessing and being stupid about it and not wanting to strike unless her buying temperature is up. And I never seem to be sure anymore whether her buying temperature is right. So I flake out like a bïtch.

The reason this is a new problem is because I recently stopped drinking. When I was hammered, I had balls of steel and didn't care. So closing anything wasn't a problem. But doing it all sober has brought back a lot of old nerves.

So I guess my question is what's a good way to build up buying temperature for the moment when you're out with a girl you're already comfortable with so you can strike while the iron is hot? Because if you try something like that when her BT is low, you screw yourself.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Nexus Polaris said:
The reason this is a new problem is because I recently stopped drinking. When I was hammered, I had balls of steel and didn't care. So closing anything wasn't a problem. But doing it all sober has brought back a lot of old nerves.
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"Bud", u need to become "wiser" once again...:up:
 
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rsaini said:
"Bud", u need to become "wiser" once again...:up:
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LOL! Dude, I didn't tell you how alcohol fücked up my game also. I would stop in the middle of sex to have deep philosophical conversations about nothing.
 
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The thing is, we've had minimal alone time. They're always very public dates. I don't really get a chance to do the hair stroking thing without it seeming awkward and misplaced.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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rsaini said:
"Bud", u need to become "wiser" once again...:up:
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Classic. :rockon:

Trust yourself to know that it wasn't the alcohol which made you different it was the EXCUSE you could rely on.

Unless you're BAC is over 2.0 and you're eating your own vomit you can't use the old: "I was drunk, man. I didn't know what I was doing." Women do this when they take a c0ck airtight then wonder why they can't stand up straight.

Bullsh!t and bullsh!t.

You have every control over your faculties. You're just afraid and booze gives you the illusion and temporary resolve to say what you truly want.
 
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