Nexus Polaris
Senior Don Juan
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So I've recently developed a case of not being able to pull the trigger. Generally, by the second time I go out with a girl, I'll have a decent chance at a K-close. But I've begun second guessing and being stupid about it and not wanting to strike unless her buying temperature is up. And I never seem to be sure anymore whether her buying temperature is right. So I flake out like a bïtch.
The reason this is a new problem is because I recently stopped drinking. When I was hammered, I had balls of steel and didn't care. So closing anything wasn't a problem. But doing it all sober has brought back a lot of old nerves.
So I guess my question is what's a good way to build up buying temperature for the moment when you're out with a girl you're already comfortable with so you can strike while the iron is hot? Because if you try something like that when her BT is low, you screw yourself.
The reason this is a new problem is because I recently stopped drinking. When I was hammered, I had balls of steel and didn't care. So closing anything wasn't a problem. But doing it all sober has brought back a lot of old nerves.
So I guess my question is what's a good way to build up buying temperature for the moment when you're out with a girl you're already comfortable with so you can strike while the iron is hot? Because if you try something like that when her BT is low, you screw yourself.
