“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Okay guys, dumb question but help me out anyway

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So I've recently developed a case of not being able to pull the trigger. Generally, by the second time I go out with a girl, I'll have a decent chance at a K-close. But I've begun second guessing and being stupid about it and not wanting to strike unless her buying temperature is up. And I never seem to be sure anymore whether her buying temperature is right. So I flake out like a bïtch.

The reason this is a new problem is because I recently stopped drinking. When I was hammered, I had balls of steel and didn't care. So closing anything wasn't a problem. But doing it all sober has brought back a lot of old nerves.

So I guess my question is what's a good way to build up buying temperature for the moment when you're out with a girl you're already comfortable with so you can strike while the iron is hot? Because if you try something like that when her BT is low, you screw yourself.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Nexus Polaris said:
The reason this is a new problem is because I recently stopped drinking. When I was hammered, I had balls of steel and didn't care. So closing anything wasn't a problem. But doing it all sober has brought back a lot of old nerves.
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"Bud", u need to become "wiser" once again...:up:
 
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rsaini said:
"Bud", u need to become "wiser" once again...:up:
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LOL! Dude, I didn't tell you how alcohol fücked up my game also. I would stop in the middle of sex to have deep philosophical conversations about nothing.
 
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The thing is, we've had minimal alone time. They're always very public dates. I don't really get a chance to do the hair stroking thing without it seeming awkward and misplaced.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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rsaini said:
"Bud", u need to become "wiser" once again...:up:
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Classic. :rockon:

Trust yourself to know that it wasn't the alcohol which made you different it was the EXCUSE you could rely on.

Unless you're BAC is over 2.0 and you're eating your own vomit you can't use the old: "I was drunk, man. I didn't know what I was doing." Women do this when they take a c0ck airtight then wonder why they can't stand up straight.

Bullsh!t and bullsh!t.

You have every control over your faculties. You're just afraid and booze gives you the illusion and temporary resolve to say what you truly want.
 
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