"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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ok wierd problem but i really need some help

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ok so let me start off from the beginning ... a lil while ago i realized that i wanted to have more female action in my life. so basically i've been on this site and i have to say it is incredible. but...it's working a little bit too well

a couple weeks ago i would never be thinking this but...

i've been talking to this girl for about a week now and have hung out with her a couple times but last night after a party i kissed her for the first time.

i really just wanted to hook up with her a couple times and see how far it went, not a full relationship. i like her alot, and think she is very cute/pretty. but i'm just not in the mood for a relationship right now, i really just want to keep tryin this don juan stuff out and not be caught up with one girl.

without kicking her to the side and being like hey i don't like you, how could i get her to just have a sort of casual, sexual relationship ? if i stated that correctly i'm not sure lol . i want to continue doing stuff with her even if it's just hookin up but i don't want to be put in the situation where i get stuck becoming her boyfriend . i'm afraid i have a clinger ?? any suggestions would be greatly appreciated
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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donjuanaba said:
ok so let me start off from the beginning ... a lil while ago i realized that i wanted to have more female action in my life. so basically i've been on this site and i have to say it is incredible. but...it's working a little bit too well

a couple weeks ago i would never be thinking this but...

i've been talking to this girl for about a week now and have hung out with her a couple times but last night after a party i kissed her for the first time.

i really just wanted to hook up with her a couple times and see how far it went, not a full relationship. i like her alot, and think she is very cute/pretty. but i'm just not in the mood for a relationship right now, i really just want to keep tryin this don juan stuff out and not be caught up with one girl.

without kicking her to the side and being like hey i don't like you, how could i get her to just have a sort of casual, sexual relationship ? if i stated that correctly i'm not sure lol . i want to continue doing stuff with her even if it's just hookin up but i don't want to be put in the situation where i get stuck becoming her boyfriend . i'm afraid i have a clinger ?? any suggestions would be greatly appreciated
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Say "not ready for anything serious. im young and just wanna have some fun." then casually and subt;y ask her if she wants to be friends with benefits
 
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Karma's Law # 11

First things fvckin' last.

Karma's Law #11 - Never ask a woman if she wants to be friends w/ benefits or friends w/ peanut butter or friends w/ anything. YOU need to be the leader in every aspect especially relationships and banging broads.

Second, you do what you want with her, taking her into consideration, but only counting her on one hand. Spin more plates. If she don't like it dump a load in her craw and broom her off.
 
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yehh i would see how far you can get... and dont ever "officially" ask her out cuz thats where the probs will start
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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ok thnx guys i really appreciate all the advice = ) i'll just do what you guys say
 
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wow thnx muzicfreak2k3, what great advice !! man if only i had a bestfriend who could give me that advice in person lol
 
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