"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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ok wierd problem but i really need some help

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ok so let me start off from the beginning ... a lil while ago i realized that i wanted to have more female action in my life. so basically i've been on this site and i have to say it is incredible. but...it's working a little bit too well

a couple weeks ago i would never be thinking this but...

i've been talking to this girl for about a week now and have hung out with her a couple times but last night after a party i kissed her for the first time.

i really just wanted to hook up with her a couple times and see how far it went, not a full relationship. i like her alot, and think she is very cute/pretty. but i'm just not in the mood for a relationship right now, i really just want to keep tryin this don juan stuff out and not be caught up with one girl.

without kicking her to the side and being like hey i don't like you, how could i get her to just have a sort of casual, sexual relationship ? if i stated that correctly i'm not sure lol . i want to continue doing stuff with her even if it's just hookin up but i don't want to be put in the situation where i get stuck becoming her boyfriend . i'm afraid i have a clinger ?? any suggestions would be greatly appreciated
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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donjuanaba said:
ok so let me start off from the beginning ... a lil while ago i realized that i wanted to have more female action in my life. so basically i've been on this site and i have to say it is incredible. but...it's working a little bit too well

a couple weeks ago i would never be thinking this but...

i've been talking to this girl for about a week now and have hung out with her a couple times but last night after a party i kissed her for the first time.

i really just wanted to hook up with her a couple times and see how far it went, not a full relationship. i like her alot, and think she is very cute/pretty. but i'm just not in the mood for a relationship right now, i really just want to keep tryin this don juan stuff out and not be caught up with one girl.

without kicking her to the side and being like hey i don't like you, how could i get her to just have a sort of casual, sexual relationship ? if i stated that correctly i'm not sure lol . i want to continue doing stuff with her even if it's just hookin up but i don't want to be put in the situation where i get stuck becoming her boyfriend . i'm afraid i have a clinger ?? any suggestions would be greatly appreciated
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Say "not ready for anything serious. im young and just wanna have some fun." then casually and subt;y ask her if she wants to be friends with benefits
 
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Karma's Law # 11

First things fvckin' last.

Karma's Law #11 - Never ask a woman if she wants to be friends w/ benefits or friends w/ peanut butter or friends w/ anything. YOU need to be the leader in every aspect especially relationships and banging broads.

Second, you do what you want with her, taking her into consideration, but only counting her on one hand. Spin more plates. If she don't like it dump a load in her craw and broom her off.
 
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yehh i would see how far you can get... and dont ever "officially" ask her out cuz thats where the probs will start
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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ok thnx guys i really appreciate all the advice = ) i'll just do what you guys say
 
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wow thnx muzicfreak2k3, what great advice !! man if only i had a bestfriend who could give me that advice in person lol
 
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