ok wierd problem but i really need some help

[donjuanaba]

ok so let me start off from the beginning ... a lil while ago i realized that i wanted to have more female action in my life. so basically i've been on this site and i have to say it is incredible. but...it's working a little bit too well

a couple weeks ago i would never be thinking this but...

i've been talking to this girl for about a week now and have hung out with her a couple times but last night after a party i kissed her for the first time.

i really just wanted to hook up with her a couple times and see how far it went, not a full relationship. i like her alot, and think she is very cute/pretty. but i'm just not in the mood for a relationship right now, i really just want to keep tryin this don juan stuff out and not be caught up with one girl.

without kicking her to the side and being like hey i don't like you, how could i get her to just have a sort of casual, sexual relationship ? if i stated that correctly i'm not sure lol . i want to continue doing stuff with her even if it's just hookin up but i don't want to be put in the situation where i get stuck becoming her boyfriend . i'm afraid i have a clinger ?? any suggestions would be greatly appreciated

 

[saber101]

ok so let me start off from the beginning ... a lil while ago i realized that i wanted to have more female action in my life. so basically i've been on this site and i have to say it is incredible. but...it's working a little bit too well

a couple weeks ago i would never be thinking this but...

i've been talking to this girl for about a week now and have hung out with her a couple times but last night after a party i kissed her for the first time.

i really just wanted to hook up with her a couple times and see how far it went, not a full relationship. i like her alot, and think she is very cute/pretty. but i'm just not in the mood for a relationship right now, i really just want to keep tryin this don juan stuff out and not be caught up with one girl.

without kicking her to the side and being like hey i don't like you, how could i get her to just have a sort of casual, sexual relationship ? if i stated that correctly i'm not sure lol . i want to continue doing stuff with her even if it's just hookin up but i don't want to be put in the situation where i get stuck becoming her boyfriend . i'm afraid i have a clinger ?? any suggestions would be greatly appreciated

Say "not ready for anything serious. im young and just wanna have some fun." then casually and subt;y ask her if she wants to be friends with benefits

 

[KarmaSutra]

Karma's Law # 11

First things fvckin' last.

Karma's Law #11 - Never ask a woman if she wants to be friends w/ benefits or friends w/ peanut butter or friends w/ anything. YOU need to be the leader in every aspect especially relationships and banging broads.

Second, you do what you want with her, taking her into consideration, but only counting her on one hand. Spin more plates. If she don't like it dump a load in her craw and broom her off.

 

[Freddy1]

Good advice

 

[muzicfreak2k3]

yehh i would see how far you can get... and dont ever "officially" ask her out cuz thats where the probs will start

 

[donjuanaba]

ok thnx guys i really appreciate all the advice = ) i'll just do what you guys say

 

[donjuanaba]

wow thnx muzicfreak2k3, what great advice !! man if only i had a bestfriend who could give me that advice in person lol