Plec07
Senior Don Juan
I don't think I'd be able to do it again if I tried lol, getting close to an EVH tone that sounds good with a trumpet is hard enough, yet alone playing two completely different styles and still making them compatable.
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.