Plec07
Senior Don Juan
I don't think I'd be able to do it again if I tried lol, getting close to an EVH tone that sounds good with a trumpet is hard enough, yet alone playing two completely different styles and still making them compatable.
"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
ok this is tricky
- Thread starter rottweiler_273
- Start date
"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
SenorSuave
Don Juan
And how's that a bad thing? Sounds like the perfect scenario to me, just put down the instruments before anything happens or that could create problems haha
Plec07
Senior Don Juan
Well.... who knows maybe she has a flute fetish 
lmao.
lmao.rottweiler_273
Banned
haha never said it was bad tis rather ****ing awesome actually and yes wouldnt wanaa break the guitarSenorSuave said:
SenorSuave
Don Juan
haha, if she has a flute fetish, I'd still suggest putting it away, after all, who knows where that could end up. Wouldn't want any injuries physically or mentally
"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
rottweiler_273
Banned
Yeahh im scarred anyway lol