Plec07
Senior Don Juan
I don't think I'd be able to do it again if I tried lol, getting close to an EVH tone that sounds good with a trumpet is hard enough, yet alone playing two completely different styles and still making them compatable.
"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
ok this is tricky
- Thread starter rottweiler_273
- Start date
"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
SenorSuave
Don Juan
And how's that a bad thing? Sounds like the perfect scenario to me, just put down the instruments before anything happens or that could create problems haha
Plec07
Senior Don Juan
Well.... who knows maybe she has a flute fetish 
lmao.
lmao.rottweiler_273
Banned
haha never said it was bad tis rather ****ing awesome actually and yes wouldnt wanaa break the guitarSenorSuave said:
SenorSuave
Don Juan
haha, if she has a flute fetish, I'd still suggest putting it away, after all, who knows where that could end up. Wouldn't want any injuries physically or mentally
"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
rottweiler_273
Banned
Yeahh im scarred anyway lol