"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Rage19

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i need to do something, this b!tch screwed me over big time, she used me to the full extent and i didnt even notice! what can i do for revenge?... please give ANY ideas nothing stupid though or invovles goin to jail over lol

she tell me she love me, now she say she never did >.> and we were just friends/fuk buddys

she used me for money,emotional tampon(from wat her folks did to her) , etc

i need revenge >> its in my blood ANYTHING WOULD BE GOOD!
she used my family as well so its not just me, i want it bad, our mutual friends also want revenge on her so ANY ideas thanks guys

if need anymore details gimme a buzz on msn
[email protected]
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Alphathree

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My friend your anger is misplaced. Be angry with yourself, not with her, and use your dissatisfication with who you are right now to change.

She was BUILT to do this to you. You LET it happen.

The responsibility lies with you.

You can't change who she is or the fact that she'll do this to someone else. You can only make sure it never happens to you again.

The best 'revenge' you can get (although that is a horrible frame) is to move on and attract and date normal, healthy women.

The revenge is that when you do that, she will have no CHOICE but to be attracted to you because other women are attracted to you. It's hard wired for her. That's your 'revenge.'

Your revenge is that your posting here is the beginning of a turnaround for you in which you're going to be in control of yourself, and women are going to go out of control lusting after you.

Your revenge is that you will have sexual choice, and she will not, nor will any women. Not with you.

Once you have that, though, the thought of revenge will have long ago faded.
 

Hound_of_Love

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Alphathree is right.

Walk away and never look back. Let your revenge be that you forget about her - she is now beneath your notice.
 

Climax

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Best revenge in my opinion is to speak with her calmly, and put the biggest guilt trip on her.... and trust me, the guilt WILL catch up to her and when it does, she WILL be sorry.

Just my 2c:rolleyes:

P.S.: Alphathree also gave some good advice, head it.


Laterz...
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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darth yoda

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Your anger is leading to hate...

Just let it go.
 

Tkman

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Originally posted by Rage19
i need to do something, this b!tch screwed me over big time, she used me to the full extent and i didnt even notice! what can i do for revenge?... please give ANY ideas nothing stupid though or invovles goin to jail over lol

she tell me she love me, now she say she never did >.> and we were just friends/fuk buddys

she used me for money,emotional tampon(from wat her folks did to her) , etc

i need revenge >> its in my blood ANYTHING WOULD BE GOOD!
she used my family as well so its not just me, i want it bad, our mutual friends also want revenge on her so ANY ideas thanks guys

if need anymore details gimme a buzz on msn
[email protected]
There is no one to blame but you ! :down:
 

Austizzle

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Originally posted by Phoenix_of_the_ashes
Why dont you just let your animal instincts go and throw a water bottle at her while shes driving?
lol good call
 

Black_Italian

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I think you guys are tottaly ignoring the question that is being asked.

They say "revenge is a dish best served cold". So what you should do is shoot her with some kind of ray gun that frezzes people then put her in a frezzer put a lock on it charter a plane to Antartica take her with you and dig a deep hole in the snow and put her in it while shes still frozen in the frezzer. Il tell you how to do this:

Tools
You will need:
-A ninja suit
-A Frezze ray gun
-A Frezzer
-About $5000 for the plane to Antartica
-A lock
-Some SNOW NINJA cloths to keep you warm subzero tempretures of Antartica.

Method
-Put on your Ninja suit
-Wait inside her house with the frezze ray gun
-When she comes in shoot her with the frezze ray then say something realy cool like "Frezze" or "Now your realy the ice queen"
-Take her frozen body and put it in the frezzer
-Load the Frezzer onto the plane fly to Antartica
-Change int your SNOW NINJA cloths
-Find a sutiable place and start digging a hole.
-Throw the frezzer in
-Fly home

OR

You could go up to her and ask NICELY for your balls back.

Ninja Out
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Big Eee Zee

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pick up a hot chick and ignore her. Make it known that this chick satisfies you more than the one that screwed you over.
 

brenbaus

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Being used by women sux, I figured this out when I was used, it happens, but it is not her fault you let her use you. Get over it and move on to a woman who wont use you, and if you see the signs that she is using you, NEXT HER @SS!
 

Wyldfire

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Originally posted by Rage19
i need to do something, this b!tch screwed me over big time, she used me to the full extent and i didnt even notice! what can i do for revenge?... please give ANY ideas nothing stupid though or invovles goin to jail over lol

she tell me she love me, now she say she never did >.> and we were just friends/fuk buddys

she used me for money,emotional tampon(from wat her folks did to her) , etc

i need revenge >> its in my blood ANYTHING WOULD BE GOOD!
she used my family as well so its not just me, i want it bad, our mutual friends also want revenge on her so ANY ideas thanks guys

if need anymore details gimme a buzz on msn
[email protected]
The only truly BENEFICIAL and WORHTWHILE revenge is for you to go about your life, forget about her and be truly happy. Anything else will only make you feel worse and encourage you to spend your life angry and miserable while she goes on with her life, happy as a clam.
 

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Oh...I forgot to add that this woman is a female Player. What she did is the same thing many of the guys on here do to girls. This girl used you to get what she wanted, let you think you meant something to her and then you found out you were just used. Many guys here use girls for sex, let them think they care about them until they get all they want and then move on to the next girl.

You should ask yourself honestly what your goal was with this girl. Did you try to play her, too, or were you being sincere? If you were trying to play her then I think you're probably most angry because she was better at playing the game then you were.
 

flexion_

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Move on with your life. It was your problem not hers. You let her do this do you.
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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