"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Rage19

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i need to do something, this b!tch screwed me over big time, she used me to the full extent and i didnt even notice! what can i do for revenge?... please give ANY ideas nothing stupid though or invovles goin to jail over lol

she tell me she love me, now she say she never did >.> and we were just friends/fuk buddys

she used me for money,emotional tampon(from wat her folks did to her) , etc

i need revenge >> its in my blood ANYTHING WOULD BE GOOD!
she used my family as well so its not just me, i want it bad, our mutual friends also want revenge on her so ANY ideas thanks guys

if need anymore details gimme a buzz on msn
[email protected]
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Alphathree

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My friend your anger is misplaced. Be angry with yourself, not with her, and use your dissatisfication with who you are right now to change.

She was BUILT to do this to you. You LET it happen.

The responsibility lies with you.

You can't change who she is or the fact that she'll do this to someone else. You can only make sure it never happens to you again.

The best 'revenge' you can get (although that is a horrible frame) is to move on and attract and date normal, healthy women.

The revenge is that when you do that, she will have no CHOICE but to be attracted to you because other women are attracted to you. It's hard wired for her. That's your 'revenge.'

Your revenge is that your posting here is the beginning of a turnaround for you in which you're going to be in control of yourself, and women are going to go out of control lusting after you.

Your revenge is that you will have sexual choice, and she will not, nor will any women. Not with you.

Once you have that, though, the thought of revenge will have long ago faded.
 

Hound_of_Love

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Alphathree is right.

Walk away and never look back. Let your revenge be that you forget about her - she is now beneath your notice.
 

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Best revenge in my opinion is to speak with her calmly, and put the biggest guilt trip on her.... and trust me, the guilt WILL catch up to her and when it does, she WILL be sorry.

Just my 2c:rolleyes:

P.S.: Alphathree also gave some good advice, head it.


Laterz...
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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darth yoda

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Your anger is leading to hate...

Just let it go.
 

Tkman

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Originally posted by Rage19
i need to do something, this b!tch screwed me over big time, she used me to the full extent and i didnt even notice! what can i do for revenge?... please give ANY ideas nothing stupid though or invovles goin to jail over lol

she tell me she love me, now she say she never did >.> and we were just friends/fuk buddys

she used me for money,emotional tampon(from wat her folks did to her) , etc

i need revenge >> its in my blood ANYTHING WOULD BE GOOD!
she used my family as well so its not just me, i want it bad, our mutual friends also want revenge on her so ANY ideas thanks guys

if need anymore details gimme a buzz on msn
[email protected]
There is no one to blame but you ! :down:
 

Austizzle

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Originally posted by Phoenix_of_the_ashes
Why dont you just let your animal instincts go and throw a water bottle at her while shes driving?
lol good call
 

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I think you guys are tottaly ignoring the question that is being asked.

They say "revenge is a dish best served cold". So what you should do is shoot her with some kind of ray gun that frezzes people then put her in a frezzer put a lock on it charter a plane to Antartica take her with you and dig a deep hole in the snow and put her in it while shes still frozen in the frezzer. Il tell you how to do this:

Tools
You will need:
-A ninja suit
-A Frezze ray gun
-A Frezzer
-About $5000 for the plane to Antartica
-A lock
-Some SNOW NINJA cloths to keep you warm subzero tempretures of Antartica.

Method
-Put on your Ninja suit
-Wait inside her house with the frezze ray gun
-When she comes in shoot her with the frezze ray then say something realy cool like "Frezze" or "Now your realy the ice queen"
-Take her frozen body and put it in the frezzer
-Load the Frezzer onto the plane fly to Antartica
-Change int your SNOW NINJA cloths
-Find a sutiable place and start digging a hole.
-Throw the frezzer in
-Fly home

OR

You could go up to her and ask NICELY for your balls back.

Ninja Out
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Big Eee Zee

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pick up a hot chick and ignore her. Make it known that this chick satisfies you more than the one that screwed you over.
 

brenbaus

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Being used by women sux, I figured this out when I was used, it happens, but it is not her fault you let her use you. Get over it and move on to a woman who wont use you, and if you see the signs that she is using you, NEXT HER @SS!
 

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Originally posted by Rage19
i need to do something, this b!tch screwed me over big time, she used me to the full extent and i didnt even notice! what can i do for revenge?... please give ANY ideas nothing stupid though or invovles goin to jail over lol

she tell me she love me, now she say she never did >.> and we were just friends/fuk buddys

she used me for money,emotional tampon(from wat her folks did to her) , etc

i need revenge >> its in my blood ANYTHING WOULD BE GOOD!
she used my family as well so its not just me, i want it bad, our mutual friends also want revenge on her so ANY ideas thanks guys

if need anymore details gimme a buzz on msn
[email protected]
The only truly BENEFICIAL and WORHTWHILE revenge is for you to go about your life, forget about her and be truly happy. Anything else will only make you feel worse and encourage you to spend your life angry and miserable while she goes on with her life, happy as a clam.
 

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Oh...I forgot to add that this woman is a female Player. What she did is the same thing many of the guys on here do to girls. This girl used you to get what she wanted, let you think you meant something to her and then you found out you were just used. Many guys here use girls for sex, let them think they care about them until they get all they want and then move on to the next girl.

You should ask yourself honestly what your goal was with this girl. Did you try to play her, too, or were you being sincere? If you were trying to play her then I think you're probably most angry because she was better at playing the game then you were.
 

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Move on with your life. It was your problem not hers. You let her do this do you.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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