"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Rage19

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i need to do something, this b!tch screwed me over big time, she used me to the full extent and i didnt even notice! what can i do for revenge?... please give ANY ideas nothing stupid though or invovles goin to jail over lol

she tell me she love me, now she say she never did >.> and we were just friends/fuk buddys

she used me for money,emotional tampon(from wat her folks did to her) , etc

i need revenge >> its in my blood ANYTHING WOULD BE GOOD!
she used my family as well so its not just me, i want it bad, our mutual friends also want revenge on her so ANY ideas thanks guys

if need anymore details gimme a buzz on msn
[email protected]
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Alphathree

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My friend your anger is misplaced. Be angry with yourself, not with her, and use your dissatisfication with who you are right now to change.

She was BUILT to do this to you. You LET it happen.

The responsibility lies with you.

You can't change who she is or the fact that she'll do this to someone else. You can only make sure it never happens to you again.

The best 'revenge' you can get (although that is a horrible frame) is to move on and attract and date normal, healthy women.

The revenge is that when you do that, she will have no CHOICE but to be attracted to you because other women are attracted to you. It's hard wired for her. That's your 'revenge.'

Your revenge is that your posting here is the beginning of a turnaround for you in which you're going to be in control of yourself, and women are going to go out of control lusting after you.

Your revenge is that you will have sexual choice, and she will not, nor will any women. Not with you.

Once you have that, though, the thought of revenge will have long ago faded.
 

Hound_of_Love

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Alphathree is right.

Walk away and never look back. Let your revenge be that you forget about her - she is now beneath your notice.
 

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Best revenge in my opinion is to speak with her calmly, and put the biggest guilt trip on her.... and trust me, the guilt WILL catch up to her and when it does, she WILL be sorry.

Just my 2c:rolleyes:

P.S.: Alphathree also gave some good advice, head it.


Laterz...
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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darth yoda

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Your anger is leading to hate...

Just let it go.
 

Tkman

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Originally posted by Rage19
i need to do something, this b!tch screwed me over big time, she used me to the full extent and i didnt even notice! what can i do for revenge?... please give ANY ideas nothing stupid though or invovles goin to jail over lol

she tell me she love me, now she say she never did >.> and we were just friends/fuk buddys

she used me for money,emotional tampon(from wat her folks did to her) , etc

i need revenge >> its in my blood ANYTHING WOULD BE GOOD!
she used my family as well so its not just me, i want it bad, our mutual friends also want revenge on her so ANY ideas thanks guys

if need anymore details gimme a buzz on msn
[email protected]
There is no one to blame but you ! :down:
 

Austizzle

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Originally posted by Phoenix_of_the_ashes
Why dont you just let your animal instincts go and throw a water bottle at her while shes driving?
lol good call
 

Black_Italian

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I think you guys are tottaly ignoring the question that is being asked.

They say "revenge is a dish best served cold". So what you should do is shoot her with some kind of ray gun that frezzes people then put her in a frezzer put a lock on it charter a plane to Antartica take her with you and dig a deep hole in the snow and put her in it while shes still frozen in the frezzer. Il tell you how to do this:

Tools
You will need:
-A ninja suit
-A Frezze ray gun
-A Frezzer
-About $5000 for the plane to Antartica
-A lock
-Some SNOW NINJA cloths to keep you warm subzero tempretures of Antartica.

Method
-Put on your Ninja suit
-Wait inside her house with the frezze ray gun
-When she comes in shoot her with the frezze ray then say something realy cool like "Frezze" or "Now your realy the ice queen"
-Take her frozen body and put it in the frezzer
-Load the Frezzer onto the plane fly to Antartica
-Change int your SNOW NINJA cloths
-Find a sutiable place and start digging a hole.
-Throw the frezzer in
-Fly home

OR

You could go up to her and ask NICELY for your balls back.

Ninja Out
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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Big Eee Zee

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pick up a hot chick and ignore her. Make it known that this chick satisfies you more than the one that screwed you over.
 

brenbaus

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Being used by women sux, I figured this out when I was used, it happens, but it is not her fault you let her use you. Get over it and move on to a woman who wont use you, and if you see the signs that she is using you, NEXT HER @SS!
 

Wyldfire

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Originally posted by Rage19
i need to do something, this b!tch screwed me over big time, she used me to the full extent and i didnt even notice! what can i do for revenge?... please give ANY ideas nothing stupid though or invovles goin to jail over lol

she tell me she love me, now she say she never did >.> and we were just friends/fuk buddys

she used me for money,emotional tampon(from wat her folks did to her) , etc

i need revenge >> its in my blood ANYTHING WOULD BE GOOD!
she used my family as well so its not just me, i want it bad, our mutual friends also want revenge on her so ANY ideas thanks guys

if need anymore details gimme a buzz on msn
[email protected]
The only truly BENEFICIAL and WORHTWHILE revenge is for you to go about your life, forget about her and be truly happy. Anything else will only make you feel worse and encourage you to spend your life angry and miserable while she goes on with her life, happy as a clam.
 

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Oh...I forgot to add that this woman is a female Player. What she did is the same thing many of the guys on here do to girls. This girl used you to get what she wanted, let you think you meant something to her and then you found out you were just used. Many guys here use girls for sex, let them think they care about them until they get all they want and then move on to the next girl.

You should ask yourself honestly what your goal was with this girl. Did you try to play her, too, or were you being sincere? If you were trying to play her then I think you're probably most angry because she was better at playing the game then you were.
 

flexion_

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Move on with your life. It was your problem not hers. You let her do this do you.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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