You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
Feminists have being saying this nonsensical shyt for 40 years!!!!!!!!!!!!!Jay Jay said:Don't you realise that a woman suffered pain you cannot even imagine to give you life.JJ
no LMS, it's true.Last Man Standing said:Feminists have being saying this nonsensical shyt for 40 years!!!!!!!!!!!!!
OHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHH GOD!!!! You are a woman!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! I finally figured out why you had such a warped angle on men's issues!!!
JJ, you don't have to imagine that kind of pain, do you? Because you are of the female persuasion!!!
Only a ho-mo would say such!!!Raikojo17 said:no LMS, it's true.
a woman, a hor if u will, went through a pain like u could never in ur life go through to give birth to u. so u could be here today spouting about how women are all hors (like her).
It's rare, but we both agree on this.Last Man Standing said:Only a ho-mo would say such!!!
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
Oh, you do not understand what me and "feminists" have to say about the pain of childbirth?Last Man Standing said:Feminists have being saying this nonsensical shyt for 40 years!!!!!!!!!!!!!
OHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHH GOD!!!! You are a woman!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! I finally figured out why you had such a warped angle on men's issues!!!
JJ, you don't have to imagine that kind of pain, do you? Because you are of the female persuasion!!!
Haha, good one kid, that was a good slight against me - touche!!Jay Jay said:When a man is born, it comes out of this thing called a "virgina." Don't worry about this virgina thing, I am quite certain that your birth was, and will be, the only time you ever come in contact one of these things.
Last Man Standing said:Haha, good one kid, that was a good slight against me - touche!!
It is a "vagina" not a "virgina".
Motherhood is a beautiful thing and should be respected and honored to the fullest!!! No argument here!!!
Damn! That spelling mistake really ruined a well constructed burn didn't it! I'm good at doing everything with em but spelling it!
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Well as long as you're not calling my mum a hor...
JJ
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
Hors "sleep" around - women sleep with their husband! Women are not hors until they hor - differentiate!!Oxide said:Just ask your mom how many abortions she's had.
WOMEN SLEEP AROUND. HOLY CRAP we've just discovered a parellel universe!
Whoa, such words!!! "LTR, Engaged, to be Married - wow, this emphasizes my point - she is being pimped and it is not her husband!!!Oxide said:Biitch please... so a girl in LTR engaged to be married is what?
lemme ask you, do you sleep with hors?
You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.
I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.
Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.
These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.
These are words of wisdom. Yes it takes time and patience and yes for a certain period of your life, you will have one-night stands and boring dates with women that you don't want spend the rest of your life with. You will go through all this, you'll enjoy the ride for many years. It will be a blast but eventually it will leave you a bit lonely and jaded but you will have learnt something valuable: how to interact with women, what you want and what you do not want in a woman and so forth.You have to be very picky, patient, and smart when deciding to say, "This is my girlfriend."
DJF or John said:...I mean, skip to the lou made a thread everyday, but at least it wasn't this whining bullshyt.
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.