"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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OK, so women suck (both ways) - what can you do?

Oxide

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See John, right now I don't know what I want. I am sort of in the no mans land - I've had enough girls where I don't really care yet I do sometimes wish for the good connection - yet fully knowing that I will get bored of being with the same girl rather quick.

And "just bang hors" is a horrible strategy in my opinion. To me a hor = will fvck anyway so you are not that special by tagging her. I want to feel some kind of sense of accomplishment when I get here - I want to put in the work in the sack knowing that I want her to like it.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Babnik - where are your success stories and date journals??

i think you are a very frustrated man who isnt WITH IT when it comes to reality and women
 
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