She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
Feminists have being saying this nonsensical shyt for 40 years!!!!!!!!!!!!!Jay Jay said:Don't you realise that a woman suffered pain you cannot even imagine to give you life.JJ
no LMS, it's true.Last Man Standing said:Feminists have being saying this nonsensical shyt for 40 years!!!!!!!!!!!!!
OHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHH GOD!!!! You are a woman!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! I finally figured out why you had such a warped angle on men's issues!!!
JJ, you don't have to imagine that kind of pain, do you? Because you are of the female persuasion!!!
Only a ho-mo would say such!!!Raikojo17 said:no LMS, it's true.
a woman, a hor if u will, went through a pain like u could never in ur life go through to give birth to u. so u could be here today spouting about how women are all hors (like her).
It's rare, but we both agree on this.Last Man Standing said:Only a ho-mo would say such!!!
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
Oh, you do not understand what me and "feminists" have to say about the pain of childbirth?Last Man Standing said:Feminists have being saying this nonsensical shyt for 40 years!!!!!!!!!!!!!
OHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHH GOD!!!! You are a woman!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! I finally figured out why you had such a warped angle on men's issues!!!
JJ, you don't have to imagine that kind of pain, do you? Because you are of the female persuasion!!!
Haha, good one kid, that was a good slight against me - touche!!Jay Jay said:When a man is born, it comes out of this thing called a "virgina." Don't worry about this virgina thing, I am quite certain that your birth was, and will be, the only time you ever come in contact one of these things.
Last Man Standing said:Haha, good one kid, that was a good slight against me - touche!!
It is a "vagina" not a "virgina".
Motherhood is a beautiful thing and should be respected and honored to the fullest!!! No argument here!!!
Damn! That spelling mistake really ruined a well constructed burn didn't it! I'm good at doing everything with em but spelling it!
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Well as long as you're not calling my mum a hor...
JJ
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
Hors "sleep" around - women sleep with their husband! Women are not hors until they hor - differentiate!!Oxide said:Just ask your mom how many abortions she's had.
WOMEN SLEEP AROUND. HOLY CRAP we've just discovered a parellel universe!
Whoa, such words!!! "LTR, Engaged, to be Married - wow, this emphasizes my point - she is being pimped and it is not her husband!!!Oxide said:Biitch please... so a girl in LTR engaged to be married is what?
lemme ask you, do you sleep with hors?
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
These are words of wisdom. Yes it takes time and patience and yes for a certain period of your life, you will have one-night stands and boring dates with women that you don't want spend the rest of your life with. You will go through all this, you'll enjoy the ride for many years. It will be a blast but eventually it will leave you a bit lonely and jaded but you will have learnt something valuable: how to interact with women, what you want and what you do not want in a woman and so forth.You have to be very picky, patient, and smart when deciding to say, "This is my girlfriend."
DJF or John said:...I mean, skip to the lou made a thread everyday, but at least it wasn't this whining bullshyt.
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.