"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Ok so whats this mean??

newb

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Same girl from my post the other day.

The one who doesnt like PDA...well today she made it a point to kiss me in the parking lot after we met up for lunch.

Not really the point of this post tho...

She mentioned today that she is still talking to her ex, who btw treated her like shlt, but merely on a freindship level. They were together for maybe one and one half yrs (I think), and she was the one to break it off about a month ago. He keeps calling her and she said he 'needs' her as a friend right now b/c hes going thru alot.

Im not jealous or threatened at all, but it is rather annoying to me.

What does this mean that she felt the need to mention it to me and "be honest"?
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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It means that she is still talking to her ex, who btw treated her like shlt, but merely on a freindship level.


It does get to you, otherwise you wouldn't have made a post about it.

I don't think she is necessarly playing games... it's pretty common for girls/guys to stay friends after long relationships, because there was some level of freindship there in the first place.

If you do your job in keeping her attracted to you, you have nothing to worry about
 

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It does get to you, otherwise you wouldn't have made a post about it.

>>> I was thinking the exact same thing when I read the original post. If you're "not jealous or threatened" but it is "annoying", then ask yourself , really, what's so annoying about it ?? It must annoy you because it gets to you, or makes you feel threatened. I agree w/backbreaker 100% . Just ignore that fact, that she's friends w/her ex. It shouldn't bother you at all. If anything it just shows she's mature enough to have a LTR and not be a drama queen forever about the breakup and aftermath. So that's good news for when she's YOUR ex ! :D j/k......
 

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If you aren't worried about it, then why post about it?

It's simple, she's talking to her ex. No need to be alarmed.
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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