"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Ok so whats this mean??

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Same girl from my post the other day.

The one who doesnt like PDA...well today she made it a point to kiss me in the parking lot after we met up for lunch.

Not really the point of this post tho...

She mentioned today that she is still talking to her ex, who btw treated her like shlt, but merely on a freindship level. They were together for maybe one and one half yrs (I think), and she was the one to break it off about a month ago. He keeps calling her and she said he 'needs' her as a friend right now b/c hes going thru alot.

Im not jealous or threatened at all, but it is rather annoying to me.

What does this mean that she felt the need to mention it to me and "be honest"?
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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It means that she is still talking to her ex, who btw treated her like shlt, but merely on a freindship level.


It does get to you, otherwise you wouldn't have made a post about it.

I don't think she is necessarly playing games... it's pretty common for girls/guys to stay friends after long relationships, because there was some level of freindship there in the first place.

If you do your job in keeping her attracted to you, you have nothing to worry about
 
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It does get to you, otherwise you wouldn't have made a post about it.

>>> I was thinking the exact same thing when I read the original post. If you're "not jealous or threatened" but it is "annoying", then ask yourself , really, what's so annoying about it ?? It must annoy you because it gets to you, or makes you feel threatened. I agree w/backbreaker 100% . Just ignore that fact, that she's friends w/her ex. It shouldn't bother you at all. If anything it just shows she's mature enough to have a LTR and not be a drama queen forever about the breakup and aftermath. So that's good news for when she's YOUR ex ! :D j/k......
 
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If you aren't worried about it, then why post about it?

It's simple, she's talking to her ex. No need to be alarmed.
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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