Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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Ok so whats this mean??

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Same girl from my post the other day.

The one who doesnt like PDA...well today she made it a point to kiss me in the parking lot after we met up for lunch.

Not really the point of this post tho...

She mentioned today that she is still talking to her ex, who btw treated her like shlt, but merely on a freindship level. They were together for maybe one and one half yrs (I think), and she was the one to break it off about a month ago. He keeps calling her and she said he 'needs' her as a friend right now b/c hes going thru alot.

Im not jealous or threatened at all, but it is rather annoying to me.

What does this mean that she felt the need to mention it to me and "be honest"?
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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It means that she is still talking to her ex, who btw treated her like shlt, but merely on a freindship level.


It does get to you, otherwise you wouldn't have made a post about it.

I don't think she is necessarly playing games... it's pretty common for girls/guys to stay friends after long relationships, because there was some level of freindship there in the first place.

If you do your job in keeping her attracted to you, you have nothing to worry about
 

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It does get to you, otherwise you wouldn't have made a post about it.

>>> I was thinking the exact same thing when I read the original post. If you're "not jealous or threatened" but it is "annoying", then ask yourself , really, what's so annoying about it ?? It must annoy you because it gets to you, or makes you feel threatened. I agree w/backbreaker 100% . Just ignore that fact, that she's friends w/her ex. It shouldn't bother you at all. If anything it just shows she's mature enough to have a LTR and not be a drama queen forever about the breakup and aftermath. So that's good news for when she's YOUR ex ! :D j/k......
 

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If you aren't worried about it, then why post about it?

It's simple, she's talking to her ex. No need to be alarmed.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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