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I don't know how many of you have seen this thread www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?t=157146 that was made just yesterday by Badmannaz. It basically just says for an guy to be an a-hole in order to attract women. Now true,the info in his thread is correct. I can't deny that. But the idea of just telling guys to be a-holes just to get women just urks me. Now,I'm guilty of this. I haven't done it that often,but I have done it before (in the past),and yeah,it does attract women. But it was a front. That's not who I truely am,so I was being fake....yet it did produce results.
So my question is,what if you're not an a-hole? Then what? We already know that being a "nice guy" doesn't attract women. No surprise there. But if I pretend to be an a-hole,I might get some dates/female attention,but you can only pretend to be something you're not for so long. Then once the real you emerges,the woman will see that you're not who she thought you were,then she's out the door. Nice guy. A-hole. Are these the only two options?
Ahhh no. You can attract women without being an a-hole,believe it or not. The reason guys suggest for men to be a-holes to get women is because that's the most widely known way. I think it was asked on here a few weeks ago why is it that women are attracted to a-holes,and not to nice guys. That's a loaded question guys,but let me throw in my two cents on the subject.
Alright,here's the deal: A man,a true man,who is strong,masculine,dominant,has pride and self-respect,is looked down on by society. He's not "politically correct". Society "shuns" this type of man,a REAL man. Instead of embracing these types of men,society rejects them,and has come up with it's own version of what a man should be,AKA "the nice guy".
The nice guy is "socially acceptable". This is the type of man tv talk shows,the media,and Hollywood all say that men should aspire to be,and what women should be attracted to.
Now,nobody wants to be a social outcast. No one wants to be rejected by society. That's why women repress their sexuality or hide it. For fear of being labeled a sl*t or an wh0re. Well not only do women not want to be frowned upon by society,but neither do us men. Women put up the "good girl" act to be socially accepted,and us men become the "nice guy" to be accepted as well. But that's society's version of men and women. It's not natural.
So when we approach a woman being society's version of a man(aka "the nice guy),instead of being a real one,we get rejected. Why? Because sex/sexual attraction is natural. It was here waaaaay before all this politically correct crap showed up. Sexual attraction is a natural thing,so in order to generate it in a woman,you have to be a natural man.....not this p.c. nice guy crap.
Well that explains why women aren't attracted to nice guys,but why are they attracted to A-holes? Ahhh,I'm glad you asked:
As I said before,a real man is strong,masculine,dominant,has pride and self-respect,is a protector,a provider,and takes care of himself and his own.
Now,out the "nice guy" and an "A-hole",which one appears to resemble a real,natural man the most? The nice guy,who basically bows down to women,and puts them up on a pedistal,or the a-hole/jerk,who's mean/cruel,and who demeans women? Of course the a-hole does.
If the real,true man is shunned to the point where basically the only two options a woman has to choose from are the nice guy and the a-hole,then because the a-hole is the closest to a natural man,she chooses him.
Real men are shunned by society,nice guys are accepted,and a-holes are accepted. What? Yeah,I said a-holes are socially accepted...or that is,they're more accepted than real men,but less acceptable than the nice guys. Don't believe me? Check out some of the tv shows. You'll have a show on where participants will get eliminated one by one each week. There will be one person on there who is good,who doesn't cause trouble,and who follows the rules in order to try to win the prize. Then you'll have someone who lies,cheats,screws over the other contestants,then when it comes to elimination time,and it comes down to the good person and the trouble maker,the good person gets voted sent home,while the a-hole continues on. And why? Because of ratings. Because that's what people (society) will tune in to see. That's just the way it is.
So in conclusion,yes,you can get women by being an a-hole....but that's not the only way to attract women. You can simply be a man,be what you were created to be,and attract women too.
I don't know how many of you have seen this thread www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?t=157146 that was made just yesterday by Badmannaz. It basically just says for an guy to be an a-hole in order to attract women. Now true,the info in his thread is correct. I can't deny that. But the idea of just telling guys to be a-holes just to get women just urks me. Now,I'm guilty of this. I haven't done it that often,but I have done it before (in the past),and yeah,it does attract women. But it was a front. That's not who I truely am,so I was being fake....yet it did produce results.
So my question is,what if you're not an a-hole? Then what? We already know that being a "nice guy" doesn't attract women. No surprise there. But if I pretend to be an a-hole,I might get some dates/female attention,but you can only pretend to be something you're not for so long. Then once the real you emerges,the woman will see that you're not who she thought you were,then she's out the door. Nice guy. A-hole. Are these the only two options?
Ahhh no. You can attract women without being an a-hole,believe it or not. The reason guys suggest for men to be a-holes to get women is because that's the most widely known way. I think it was asked on here a few weeks ago why is it that women are attracted to a-holes,and not to nice guys. That's a loaded question guys,but let me throw in my two cents on the subject.
Alright,here's the deal: A man,a true man,who is strong,masculine,dominant,has pride and self-respect,is looked down on by society. He's not "politically correct". Society "shuns" this type of man,a REAL man. Instead of embracing these types of men,society rejects them,and has come up with it's own version of what a man should be,AKA "the nice guy".
The nice guy is "socially acceptable". This is the type of man tv talk shows,the media,and Hollywood all say that men should aspire to be,and what women should be attracted to.
Now,nobody wants to be a social outcast. No one wants to be rejected by society. That's why women repress their sexuality or hide it. For fear of being labeled a sl*t or an wh0re. Well not only do women not want to be frowned upon by society,but neither do us men. Women put up the "good girl" act to be socially accepted,and us men become the "nice guy" to be accepted as well. But that's society's version of men and women. It's not natural.
So when we approach a woman being society's version of a man(aka "the nice guy),instead of being a real one,we get rejected. Why? Because sex/sexual attraction is natural. It was here waaaaay before all this politically correct crap showed up. Sexual attraction is a natural thing,so in order to generate it in a woman,you have to be a natural man.....not this p.c. nice guy crap.
Well that explains why women aren't attracted to nice guys,but why are they attracted to A-holes? Ahhh,I'm glad you asked:
As I said before,a real man is strong,masculine,dominant,has pride and self-respect,is a protector,a provider,and takes care of himself and his own.
Now,out the "nice guy" and an "A-hole",which one appears to resemble a real,natural man the most? The nice guy,who basically bows down to women,and puts them up on a pedistal,or the a-hole/jerk,who's mean/cruel,and who demeans women? Of course the a-hole does.
If the real,true man is shunned to the point where basically the only two options a woman has to choose from are the nice guy and the a-hole,then because the a-hole is the closest to a natural man,she chooses him.
Real men are shunned by society,nice guys are accepted,and a-holes are accepted. What? Yeah,I said a-holes are socially accepted...or that is,they're more accepted than real men,but less acceptable than the nice guys. Don't believe me? Check out some of the tv shows. You'll have a show on where participants will get eliminated one by one each week. There will be one person on there who is good,who doesn't cause trouble,and who follows the rules in order to try to win the prize. Then you'll have someone who lies,cheats,screws over the other contestants,then when it comes to elimination time,and it comes down to the good person and the trouble maker,the good person gets voted sent home,while the a-hole continues on. And why? Because of ratings. Because that's what people (society) will tune in to see. That's just the way it is.
So in conclusion,yes,you can get women by being an a-hole....but that's not the only way to attract women. You can simply be a man,be what you were created to be,and attract women too.