"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
Ok so how many girls watch porn?
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"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
War Against Betaism
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60% of all women masturbate....almost all men jack off.
I forget where I saw it though, it was in an article.
iqqi
Master Don Juan
I was a freaky kid.
Freud would have LOVED me.
"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
we do know that a gabillion vibrators are sold every year, so obviously women are masturbating.
the next question then however is how many of them use porn. i suspect the numbers might be low becuase what turns a woman on is being desired by a man. thats 80% of the rush for them - knowing that THEY are turning the guy on. they don't get much of a thrill out of watching some other chic turn some guy on.
even a nympho that i dated a while back, who you'd think would be into porn, wasn't. i mean, she'd look at it and make a comment, but it didn't really do anything for her.
women are all about THEMSELVES and the effect THEY have on men. whereas with guys, we aren't really thinking about how much women are into us. we dont get more aroused the more a woman is in to us. what arouses us is a kinky hot chic that we can stuff. so porn is the idealized fantasy of the natural male desire to simply f*ck the pudding out of a hot chic.
Straight chicks will watch it but they don't actively seek it.
Nights of your dreams
Boy meets girl
Calender girls (Girls making nude calenders)
It's all literotica, and women will buy it. The whole emotional/romantic crap is emotional porn for women. Women will also watch movies where people have wild sex (with a ton of emotions) and marry afterward.
There is porn for women, we just don't see it as such. (Sex and the City, Desperate Housewives, Grey's Anatomy, Private Practice, etc etc etc.)
“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”
Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.
I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.
Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules. Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.
http://www.literotica.com/stories/showstory.php?id=13525
This is the kind of stuff in those books, although some of the emotional bond building is missing.
comic_relief
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My ex loves to masterbate, but my current girlfriend only likes men. She says jokingly, "Thats part of the reason that I have you."
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War Against Betaism said:
Those are the 60% that admited to it. The other 40% think people should not know that they secretely masturbate.
MacAvoy
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Then I showed my prude ex g/f Debbie Does Dallas cuz I downloaded it on our computer and I played it one day while we were eating, she was VERY intrigued by it.
Now I doubt she's watching porn now but I use to bug her if she ever masterbated when I wasn't around and she always said no. Yesterday she contacts me and said she's been abnormally horny lately and said she's been masterbating.
"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"
You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.
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penkitten
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who stole my idea?bmxcetera said:
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"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.