"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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Ok so how many girls watch porn?

kabatura

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I didnt think girls were into porn so much but Im learning about more and more of my girl friends who watch porn. I would say 95-99% of guys watch porn, at least once a month. Anybody got a guess on girls?
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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War Against Betaism

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Hard to gauge a good estimate without actually surveying, but lately I've also been finding out that there are women out there who watch porn. Here's an interesting stat though.

60% of all women masturbate....almost all men jack off.

I forget where I saw it though, it was in an article.
 

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You probably werent as abnormal as you think. Others are just secretive.
 

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i think the % of women who watch porn, as in download it, seek it

is probalby close to 0%
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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i think we as men know very little about what women do behind closed doors. heck, i think many women have no clue what other women do behind closed doors.

we do know that a gabillion vibrators are sold every year, so obviously women are masturbating.

the next question then however is how many of them use porn. i suspect the numbers might be low becuase what turns a woman on is being desired by a man. thats 80% of the rush for them - knowing that THEY are turning the guy on. they don't get much of a thrill out of watching some other chic turn some guy on.

even a nympho that i dated a while back, who you'd think would be into porn, wasn't. i mean, she'd look at it and make a comment, but it didn't really do anything for her.

women are all about THEMSELVES and the effect THEY have on men. whereas with guys, we aren't really thinking about how much women are into us. we dont get more aroused the more a woman is in to us. what arouses us is a kinky hot chic that we can stuff. so porn is the idealized fantasy of the natural male desire to simply f*ck the pudding out of a hot chic.
 

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hey

If you ask woman about porn many of them will tell you its not my idea of a good time. But if I was a betting man I would say 85% watch it.
 

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All bisexual women watch porn. I've been focusing on dating/hooking up with Bi girls lately and thats been the most obvious difference from straight chicks (well besides enjoying ***** as much as me lol)... but they love their porn and sex toys.

Straight chicks will watch it but they don't actively seek it.
 

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I've asked 2 women if they watch porn and both said yes.
 

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Women focus much more on the emotional side (duh). I ride the train to class, and at the station there's a newspaper stand. It sells Playboy, FHM, the works and also books such as:

Nights of your dreams
Boy meets girl
Calender girls (Girls making nude calenders)

It's all literotica, and women will buy it. The whole emotional/romantic crap is emotional porn for women. Women will also watch movies where people have wild sex (with a ton of emotions) and marry afterward.

There is porn for women, we just don't see it as such. (Sex and the City, Desperate Housewives, Grey's Anatomy, Private Practice, etc etc etc.)
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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comic_relief

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Both my current and my girlfriend dislike porn.

My ex loves to masterbate, but my current girlfriend only likes men. She says jokingly, "Thats part of the reason that I have you."

comic_relief
 

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War Against Betaism said:
60% of all women masturbate....almost all men jack off.

Those are the 60% that admited to it. The other 40% think people should not know that they secretely masturbate.
 

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I never thought they were into it until the past year. I traded laptops with my old roommate and she was like... don't mind the porn. So of course, i checked out the porn. It was pretty light but it was still porn.

Then I showed my prude ex g/f Debbie Does Dallas cuz I downloaded it on our computer and I played it one day while we were eating, she was VERY intrigued by it.

Now I doubt she's watching porn now but I use to bug her if she ever masterbated when I wasn't around and she always said no. Yesterday she contacts me and said she's been abnormally horny lately and said she's been masterbating.
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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My ex watched porn and what's crazy is that she claimed that real sex should not be much different.
 

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There was a movie on comedy central called Porn and Chicken
 

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Porn and Chicken started out as a club in an Ivy League school, Harvard I think. They later produced a film "The Stacks" or something like that. Dunno if it was any good.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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