"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
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"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
Francisco d'Anconia
Master Don Juan
persiangino
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Pappadapolis
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The goal is to learn how to change the way we think when it comes to handling women.LAWYER said:OK what is a person suppose to learn at sosuave.net forum.... Tell me... in simple words and in one sentence... i will appreciate it... So i can leave this forum for good..
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"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
Last Man Standing
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It teaches you how to become a better lawyer!LAWYER said:OK what is a person suppose to learn at sosuave.net forum.... Tell me... in simple words and in one sentence... i will appreciate it... So i can leave this forum for good..
"Mental is better looking than you."LAWYER said:OK what is a person suppose to learn at sosuave.net forum.... Tell me... in simple words and in one sentence... i will appreciate it... So i can leave this forum for good..
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Docs
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Learn to type advice really fast, or learn to use advice really fast.
spider_007
Master Don Juan
funny you said that...my typing has improved 100% since this site.Docs said:
To be the best you that you can be...and to not be afraid of, or supress your "manlynes"
Chemistry
Master Don Juan
"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
insanity
Master Don Juan
ever notice people on here say they wished they found this site when they were younger. the reason for that is, if you actually get out there and use this knowledge it really works. knowing is only half the battle. doing it and watching the results of getting and keeping the girl is truly awesome