Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
The goal is to learn how to change the way we think when it comes to handling women.LAWYER said:OK what is a person suppose to learn at sosuave.net forum.... Tell me... in simple words and in one sentence... i will appreciate it... So i can leave this forum for good..![]()
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I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
It teaches you how to become a better lawyer!LAWYER said:OK what is a person suppose to learn at sosuave.net forum.... Tell me... in simple words and in one sentence... i will appreciate it... So i can leave this forum for good..SINCERLY....
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"Mental is better looking than you."LAWYER said:OK what is a person suppose to learn at sosuave.net forum.... Tell me... in simple words and in one sentence... i will appreciate it... So i can leave this forum for good..![]()
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funny you said that...my typing has improved 100% since this site.Docs said:Haha... :crackup:
Learn to type advice really fast, or learn to use advice really fast.
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.