"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
OK I want to know something...
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"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
Francisco d'Anconia
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Pappadapolis
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The goal is to learn how to change the way we think when it comes to handling women.LAWYER said:OK what is a person suppose to learn at sosuave.net forum.... Tell me... in simple words and in one sentence... i will appreciate it... So i can leave this forum for good..
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"She's Out of Your League"
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
Last Man Standing
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It teaches you how to become a better lawyer!LAWYER said:OK what is a person suppose to learn at sosuave.net forum.... Tell me... in simple words and in one sentence... i will appreciate it... So i can leave this forum for good..
"Mental is better looking than you."LAWYER said:OK what is a person suppose to learn at sosuave.net forum.... Tell me... in simple words and in one sentence... i will appreciate it... So i can leave this forum for good..
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Docs
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Learn to type advice really fast, or learn to use advice really fast.
spider_007
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funny you said that...my typing has improved 100% since this site.Docs said:
To be the best you that you can be...and to not be afraid of, or supress your "manlynes"
Chemistry
Master Don Juan
"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"
You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.
insanity
Master Don Juan
ever notice people on here say they wished they found this site when they were younger. the reason for that is, if you actually get out there and use this knowledge it really works. knowing is only half the battle. doing it and watching the results of getting and keeping the girl is truly awesome