"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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ok i think im going nuts

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lol seriously, my minds elsewere, like i cant think straight, i cant concentrate, my minds like listening to a radio, im thinking random bullcrap , is this normal, is it just my mind over working?
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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i get that, its annoying ! its seriously affecting my game because its hard to concentrate
 

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Every day just stare at a point (a spec of fluff will do the job) and block out all thoughts. Thoughts will come, just ignore them. Do this for 5 minutes every day, then work up to like half an hour if you want to be a superhuman freakshow. Take cold showers and block out the cold etc.

It's called meditating on the void. It's simple but it can do wonders for your life.
 

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DO NOT multitask, like listening to music, reading and eating at the same time. Be fully focused on ONE thing. I almost could not read books anymore because of the lack of concentration. Since I stopped multitasking, I got my concentration back.
Also, do outdoor sports. Get enough sleep. Meet people and chat with them.
 

Skilla_Staz

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It may be ADD. It may just be a short attention span. It may just be that you're tired and can't focus on one thing. Also, don't blame your poor game on concentration. I have ADD and refuse to take my meds, yet my game is doing just fine.
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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