thelonewolflegend
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i know i had car wreck but i am lonely and want someone to be with and date and see me while i am here recooperating i dont know what to do?
"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
ok I know to get better but dont understand i need companionship.
- Thread starter thelonewolflegend
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"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
VikingKing
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Escort service.
TheMonkeyKing
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Lonewolf,
Go make some genuine companions then, whether male or female.
Even if you're hanging with other dudes every night - what follow males around like a bad smell....? That's right; females. And you are learning to re-engage with masculinity at the same time.
Or, lower your standards.
Or, escort service.
Go make some genuine companions then, whether male or female.
Even if you're hanging with other dudes every night - what follow males around like a bad smell....? That's right; females. And you are learning to re-engage with masculinity at the same time.
Or, lower your standards.
Or, escort service.
logicallefty
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I agree with all this.TheMonkeyKing said:
When I used to get this way I would date women who were lower than my normal standards, just to have some companionship.
Consider each date like a night out of drinking. Go out, have fun. The next day, it's gone, done, and overwith.
Don't do it with the expectation that you will see her again past that night, just like you wont see the actual beer you drank last night again (well ok you will one more time, but its not beer anymore at that point lol) Hopefully you catch my drift. Maybe you will see her but don't count on it.