thelonewolflegend
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i know i had car wreck but i am lonely and want someone to be with and date and see me while i am here recooperating i dont know what to do?
"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
ok I know to get better but dont understand i need companionship.
- Thread starter thelonewolflegend
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"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
VikingKing
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Escort service.
TheMonkeyKing
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Lonewolf,
Go make some genuine companions then, whether male or female.
Even if you're hanging with other dudes every night - what follow males around like a bad smell....? That's right; females. And you are learning to re-engage with masculinity at the same time.
Or, lower your standards.
Or, escort service.
Go make some genuine companions then, whether male or female.
Even if you're hanging with other dudes every night - what follow males around like a bad smell....? That's right; females. And you are learning to re-engage with masculinity at the same time.
Or, lower your standards.
Or, escort service.
logicallefty
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I agree with all this.TheMonkeyKing said:
When I used to get this way I would date women who were lower than my normal standards, just to have some companionship.
Consider each date like a night out of drinking. Go out, have fun. The next day, it's gone, done, and overwith.
Don't do it with the expectation that you will see her again past that night, just like you wont see the actual beer you drank last night again (well ok you will one more time, but its not beer anymore at that point lol) Hopefully you catch my drift. Maybe you will see her but don't count on it.