thelonewolflegend
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i know i had car wreck but i am lonely and want someone to be with and date and see me while i am here recooperating i dont know what to do?
Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single
She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.
You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.
The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.
ok I know to get better but dont understand i need companionship.
- Thread starter thelonewolflegend
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"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
VikingKing
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Escort service.
TheMonkeyKing
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Lonewolf,
Go make some genuine companions then, whether male or female.
Even if you're hanging with other dudes every night - what follow males around like a bad smell....? That's right; females. And you are learning to re-engage with masculinity at the same time.
Or, lower your standards.
Or, escort service.
Go make some genuine companions then, whether male or female.
Even if you're hanging with other dudes every night - what follow males around like a bad smell....? That's right; females. And you are learning to re-engage with masculinity at the same time.
Or, lower your standards.
Or, escort service.
logicallefty
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I agree with all this.TheMonkeyKing said:
When I used to get this way I would date women who were lower than my normal standards, just to have some companionship.
Consider each date like a night out of drinking. Go out, have fun. The next day, it's gone, done, and overwith.
Don't do it with the expectation that you will see her again past that night, just like you wont see the actual beer you drank last night again (well ok you will one more time, but its not beer anymore at that point lol) Hopefully you catch my drift. Maybe you will see her but don't count on it.