Ok got a number from a girl from work , it was like she was making an excuse she's studying for her exam and she needs my opinion , she wants to interview me , I feel she's attracted to me not sure , she asked when I could i said 4 pm tommrow , I said I'll text her later how should I go about this what sort of text should I send her just simple ?
"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
Ok got a number from a girl from work
- Thread starter Thechamp
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"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
You've lost already. You care too much. Your only thought in regards to the topic should be getting more numbers incase she ends up being a flake.Thechamp said:
In the words of Ruler: You give too many fvcks.
Just call, do not text, call her and invite her somewhere.
Edit: My bad didnt read your post thoroughly. In this situation, call her tomorrow at like 2, and just say "Hey, Its TheChamp. Lets meet at X, see you at 4".