Ok got a number from a girl from work , it was like she was making an excuse she's studying for her exam and she needs my opinion , she wants to interview me , I feel she's attracted to me not sure , she asked when I could i said 4 pm tommrow , I said I'll text her later how should I go about this what sort of text should I send her just simple ?
"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
Ok got a number from a girl from work
- Thread starter Thechamp
- Start date
"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
You've lost already. You care too much. Your only thought in regards to the topic should be getting more numbers incase she ends up being a flake.Thechamp said:
In the words of Ruler: You give too many fvcks.
Just call, do not text, call her and invite her somewhere.
Edit: My bad didnt read your post thoroughly. In this situation, call her tomorrow at like 2, and just say "Hey, Its TheChamp. Lets meet at X, see you at 4".