"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Oh yeahh

Jakeg123

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Help?

Alright so I'm in a little spot that i shouldn't be complaining about. Between a cheerleader and a dancer. Cheerleader is an 8 but some stuff she does is a major turn off. Dancer is a 9 maybe even a 10. Cheerleader I can have basically whenever but the dancer is the one I want. Need a few tips. I've been doing really well for myself with both girls and things in general.

Dancer-
Meet her at a Halloween party. She opens and says "I rate you an 8 on the costume" and we get to talking. I kino, neg, it's going well and before we know it everyone is kicked out of the hotel and she is lost in the night. So I post on her facebook Monday and no more than 2 minutes later she chats me and we get to talking. So we talk once a day or every other day since Monday. I get the number and I call her last night. Get no answer but then get a text a while later "u called?" we get to talking and we were going to get some dinner after her dance competition. So I text her today asking what food she wants to celebrate her 1st place with and she says "I have to get dinner with the dancers" I reply with a simple "oo that sucks:/" and get no response.


Sorry for the length but because she's so shy I'm not sure what to do. Everything she's done has indicates interest but I think her shyness with guys is making it seem differently. Tips? This is the first time iv been stumped in a while haha

-Jake
 
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"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Jakeg123

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I meant it sucks that we didn't go out. Not that she is going with her friends.
 
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