"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Oh yeahh

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Help?

Alright so I'm in a little spot that i shouldn't be complaining about. Between a cheerleader and a dancer. Cheerleader is an 8 but some stuff she does is a major turn off. Dancer is a 9 maybe even a 10. Cheerleader I can have basically whenever but the dancer is the one I want. Need a few tips. I've been doing really well for myself with both girls and things in general.

Dancer-
Meet her at a Halloween party. She opens and says "I rate you an 8 on the costume" and we get to talking. I kino, neg, it's going well and before we know it everyone is kicked out of the hotel and she is lost in the night. So I post on her facebook Monday and no more than 2 minutes later she chats me and we get to talking. So we talk once a day or every other day since Monday. I get the number and I call her last night. Get no answer but then get a text a while later "u called?" we get to talking and we were going to get some dinner after her dance competition. So I text her today asking what food she wants to celebrate her 1st place with and she says "I have to get dinner with the dancers" I reply with a simple "oo that sucks:/" and get no response.


Sorry for the length but because she's so shy I'm not sure what to do. Everything she's done has indicates interest but I think her shyness with guys is making it seem differently. Tips? This is the first time iv been stumped in a while haha

-Jake
 
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“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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I meant it sucks that we didn't go out. Not that she is going with her friends.
 
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