"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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Oh yeahh

Jakeg123

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Help?

Alright so I'm in a little spot that i shouldn't be complaining about. Between a cheerleader and a dancer. Cheerleader is an 8 but some stuff she does is a major turn off. Dancer is a 9 maybe even a 10. Cheerleader I can have basically whenever but the dancer is the one I want. Need a few tips. I've been doing really well for myself with both girls and things in general.

Dancer-
Meet her at a Halloween party. She opens and says "I rate you an 8 on the costume" and we get to talking. I kino, neg, it's going well and before we know it everyone is kicked out of the hotel and she is lost in the night. So I post on her facebook Monday and no more than 2 minutes later she chats me and we get to talking. So we talk once a day or every other day since Monday. I get the number and I call her last night. Get no answer but then get a text a while later "u called?" we get to talking and we were going to get some dinner after her dance competition. So I text her today asking what food she wants to celebrate her 1st place with and she says "I have to get dinner with the dancers" I reply with a simple "oo that sucks:/" and get no response.


Sorry for the length but because she's so shy I'm not sure what to do. Everything she's done has indicates interest but I think her shyness with guys is making it seem differently. Tips? This is the first time iv been stumped in a while haha

-Jake
 
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"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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I meant it sucks that we didn't go out. Not that she is going with her friends.
 
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