"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Oh yeah i forgat, Me and my Girl are back together

Plain & Simple

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Remember that thread i made about "my girl dumped me etc..."

Well like i told yall the reason why she dumped me is cause she couldnt deal with my exAFC self getting angry for bs, being insecure and all the rest.

We are back now, i wont even call it a break up ill call it that it was more of a halftime break like i said in the other thread, an intermission.

everything is going perfect right now, as smooth as it can possibly be, we aint argue since we got back, man it feels good though, specially that now i know how to handle a LTR.
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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believe me thats not gonna happen, we gonna be good without no arguments for a while now, i feel it this time, and normally when i feel something specially in RL's im never wrong
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Originally posted by Plain & Simple
believe me thats not gonna happen, we gonna be good without no arguments for a while now, i feel it this time, and normally when i feel something specially in RL's im never wrong
Danger! Danger! You believe things will turn out fine when in fact you cannot guarantee it. Hopefully it will, but if it ever goes bad, I do hope you are able to handle it. And please be mindful that relationships tend to fail.
 

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Originally posted by JonJack
Danger! Danger! You believe things will turn out fine when in fact you cannot guarantee it. Hopefully it will, but if it ever goes bad, I do hope you are able to handle it. And please be mindful that relationships tend to fail.
yeah i have learned to handle situations like that, but if i act like a proper average dj and not like an afc i wont have to go thru no bs like that
 
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