"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Oh yeah i forgat, Me and my Girl are back together

Plain & Simple

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Remember that thread i made about "my girl dumped me etc..."

Well like i told yall the reason why she dumped me is cause she couldnt deal with my exAFC self getting angry for bs, being insecure and all the rest.

We are back now, i wont even call it a break up ill call it that it was more of a halftime break like i said in the other thread, an intermission.

everything is going perfect right now, as smooth as it can possibly be, we aint argue since we got back, man it feels good though, specially that now i know how to handle a LTR.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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believe me thats not gonna happen, we gonna be good without no arguments for a while now, i feel it this time, and normally when i feel something specially in RL's im never wrong
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Originally posted by Plain & Simple
believe me thats not gonna happen, we gonna be good without no arguments for a while now, i feel it this time, and normally when i feel something specially in RL's im never wrong
Danger! Danger! You believe things will turn out fine when in fact you cannot guarantee it. Hopefully it will, but if it ever goes bad, I do hope you are able to handle it. And please be mindful that relationships tend to fail.
 

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Originally posted by JonJack
Danger! Danger! You believe things will turn out fine when in fact you cannot guarantee it. Hopefully it will, but if it ever goes bad, I do hope you are able to handle it. And please be mindful that relationships tend to fail.
yeah i have learned to handle situations like that, but if i act like a proper average dj and not like an afc i wont have to go thru no bs like that
 
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